As an old guy there is no way I could ever shag in the office. For the past 30 plus years I haven't done much stupid crap.. Not that I did stuff I feel guilty about, but some could be twisted to make me look bad. I would never potentially embarrass my family. Both parties shag. I feel that is the reason we get nothing but crap candidates. In today's world people are guilty as soon as the media puts something out.