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How was your 2024 year in review?

Pretty mediocre. That said, I think I have turned the corner on my heart stuff. The ablation procedure on 12/6 seems to have taken despite some issues since then. I am finding a gear I haven't had in a while. I have started back to the gym and I'm excited about that. Things are better on the home front. Not all the way there, but progress has been made.
 
B+

Selling my house, finding a house to buy in a geographic footprint of about 10000 square miles, setting up an apartment as home base for work in DC, and then finally moving into the new permanent gig was an exhausting major pain in the ass for the first half of the year.

But when I got here to Lexington, the sunsets, the friendly people, the bike rides in the mountains, and the locally raised beef made it all worth it and then some.

Currently working on an RFP that, in the probably unlikely chance I get the engagement (which I'd value at around $25MM of work), would set me up in 2025 on a five year glide path of interesting, complicated, scary, novel, and important work. As an aging baseball guy, 'hope springs eternal' are good words to live by.
 
Good year financially - firm did well, investment accounts did well.

FSU football was very hard on my liver, and the outcome of the elections similar to FSUs football season.

Both boys had good school years, the older will graduate this summer.

No close family or friends died.

Overall, a good year. B+.
 
Any highlights? Lowlights?

My 2024 was OK. Nothing too big happened.

This summer, I hit a 50 foot chip shot right in the hole while golfing like Tiger Woods.

My gold handicap is 40 so it was nice.

How was your 2024?
Really good. Company continues to kill it.
Had a close buddy who is a 3rd party money guy for us who also does trucking - he got killed.
 
The good - our kids are all doing quite well in life. Highly successful in their chosen fields as well as their personal lives.

The bad - round 3 of cancer. But I’m feeling good and I’m still living. Find out next week if the recently finished treatments worked.

I think I’d give my year an A+
 
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Objectively, pretty good. New job I enjoy that is a definite advancement. Family is healthy and doing as well as we can. Subjectively, shit minus. Had three tough funerals including my good childhood buddy who ended his life in such a way as to ensure a closed casket funeral. Anger, guilt, and regret are most of it, but this year has tested my faith like no other. Semi-numb autopilot with insomnia that I haven't been able to shake yet. **** 2024.
 
Now that you prompted me to think about it, pretty good and eventful. Closed my practice and went to work for an orthopedic group. Good move on paper, more money and vacation time, but more stressful. Oldest graduated law school and working, youngest graduated college and working. Still married and loving my wife. That’s a pretty damn good year.
 
Overall B-

Work - A, busy, love what I do

Friends - B+, good group of friends for the last 30 years but we are finding it harder to get time to golf, hangout, etc.

Personal - D, great remaining family, but lost my Mom. I didn’t anticipate not having any living parents would be such an empty feeling. Cancer can suck it.

Onward to 2025!
 
Any highlights? Lowlights?

My 2024 was OK. Nothing too big happened.

This summer, I hit a 50 foot chip shot right in the hole while golfing like Tiger Woods.

My golf handicap is 40 so it was nice.

How was your 2024?
We refinished our basement with a shuffleboard table and pool table, went to Italy, and the S&P based 401k went up 25% not counting contributions. Cannot complain. 2025 I am refocusing on health, working out, diet, and a robust home garden as I stare at 51.
 
My 2024 ranks somewhere around where Chicago Sports Teams are ranking right now. 2025 can't get here soon enough.
 
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Well...it sucked. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

3 surgeries, 3 different pieces (I guess 5 actually if you count each of 3 tumors) of my body removed. One of them, 2nd cancer removal. So, 6 new scars added to my body.

Aaaaaaaaaaand of course the bills associated with all these issues.

The meals I can eat safely got narrowed - unless of course I want to enjoy the pleasures of puking/crapping my guts out. So, yay (?) to eating more and more "bland/inoffensive to my digestive tract" food.

My favorite owned vehicle of all time, the engine blew up during the January Polar Vortex - to the crusher it went. My remaining two vehicles needed roughly $7000 in repairs (both are in really good running condition now - knock on wood). So, yeah...bad vehicle year.




So, my wish list for 2025, no new surgeries would be nice. No new cancer too obviously. And it'd be nice if everything I touch DIDN'T break - my savings account would appreciate that.
 
Well...it sucked. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

3 surgeries, 3 different pieces (I guess 5 actually if you count each of 3 tumors) of my body removed. One of them, 2nd cancer removal. So, 6 new scars added to my body.

Aaaaaaaaaaand of course the bills associated with all these issues.

The meals I can eat safely got narrowed - unless of course I want to enjoy the pleasures of puking/crapping my guts out. So, yay (?) to eating more and more "bland/inoffensive to my digestive tract" food.

My favorite owned vehicle of all time, the engine blew up during the January Polar Vortex - to the crusher it went. My remaining two vehicles needed roughly $7000 in repairs (both are in really good running condition now - knock on wood). So, yeah...bad vehicle year.




So, my wish list for 2025, no new surgeries would be nice. No new cancer too obviously. And it'd be nice if everything I touch DIDN'T break - my savings account would appreciate that.

Can I ask what your favorite vehicle was?
 
Well...it sucked. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

3 surgeries, 3 different pieces (I guess 5 actually if you count each of 3 tumors) of my body removed. One of them, 2nd cancer removal. So, 6 new scars added to my body.

Aaaaaaaaaaand of course the bills associated with all these issues.

The meals I can eat safely got narrowed - unless of course I want to enjoy the pleasures of puking/crapping my guts out. So, yay (?) to eating more and more "bland/inoffensive to my digestive tract" food.

My favorite owned vehicle of all time, the engine blew up during the January Polar Vortex - to the crusher it went. My remaining two vehicles needed roughly $7000 in repairs (both are in really good running condition now - knock on wood). So, yeah...bad vehicle year.




So, my wish list for 2025, no new surgeries would be nice. No new cancer too obviously. And it'd be nice if everything I touch DIDN'T break - my savings account would appreciate that.
Damn. If you lived in the DSM area I would have you join our family for dinner tonight and I would tell you to knock yourself out ordering whatever you wanted off the menu (that would agree with your system). 2025 will be better.
 
Always enjoy the summer at the summer home for 6 months.
Weather created issues with fishing this year though.
All in all, a good year.
 
I tore my bicep a few years ago. It made me stop lifting. It healed on its own (not a full tear), but it took 2 years. Do not recommend.
Definitely not. Mine was a complete tear and it retracted more than 7 cm up my arm, so at least the decision for surgical repair was really, really easy. It’s actually gone well and while I’m not back to full strength, in terms of daily life, I’m like 95% there. I feel it when I do too much and I have to be careful lifting particularly heavy or awkward things.
 
Can I ask what your favorite vehicle was?

2006 BMW X5.

When running correct - best combination of ride quality, seat/cab comfort, handling (based on the then-great 5 series platform), road noise cancelling, etc of any vehicle I've owned that I could tow my boat with. It was smooth, quiet, nimble for what it was (4700 pound SUV), never took a "bad step" handling-wise, and towed my 2,000 pound boat/trailer with ease. It even averaged 20 mpg over the 11 years (lots of highway miles).

I used the hell out of it. I changed all my own oil with the correct spec at 5k intervals, did almost all my own maintenance and small scale repairs...I knew damn near every inch of that thing except the drivetrain internals.

Of course, it was a 2000-present BMW - so I had a myriad of issues with it over the course of my 11 years. It's Achilles Heel was that goddam BMW CCV (PCV) system. I had the winter package on it, yet it still froze up THREE different times (usually blows out the valve cover gasket, spewing oil everywhere). $1600 the first time (2015), $1800 the second time (2020). Third time, there was coolant in the combustion chamber, so I junked it.

183,000 miles over 11 years (it had darn near 300k total...otherwise ran perfect)...I got my money's worth out of it. And other makes/engines have the same issue - simply put moisture builds up in the crankcase over time, and freezes the pressure release valve - so with nothing venting the high pressure, it blows the weakest link (usually the valve cover gasket but the cylinder head gasket can blow out too, which is what I think mine did the 3rd time).

So, yeah. Change your oil regularly in cold climates, folks. I did and it still blew 3 times. EVERY modern BMW can succumb to this. It's a terrible design that they never truly improved upon. Ironically, my 2002 3 series e46 I've owned now 11 years too, doesn't have the winter CCV package - yet I've never had an issue with that one.

I'll drive that one until it inevitably explodes too...
 
Went to France A+
Lost favorite SIL F
Planned and Presented large ag conference +200 A+
Blew thru a lot of cash C-
Saw 8 grandkids over holidays A+
Interviewed by Bloomberg A

Dealing with election/relationships D+

Dealing with Kelsers and alts..... not sure how to rate that.

Mixed year on extreme sides.
 
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In a vacuum, a struggle. Being an empty nester has proved more difficult than I imagined. I have had a difficult time getting over a relationship that I chose to end, even though it has been 3 plus years and I have completely fallen out of love with my job.

However, when I take a step back, I realize how fortunate I am. My family is healthy and happy. My kids are doing well. There is much to be thankful for. I see what other people in my life have gone through and realize how many positive things I have in my life. Perspective is incredibly important.
 
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