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My wife (no pregger wife pic) and I are expecting our first child in June and are getting ready to register for the baby shower. What are some must haves, best brands and/or worthless things that we will be needing/not needing. We stopped into Buy Buy Baby in Des Moines a couple weeks ago and most things seemed like a waste of money to me. I've done some additional online research but thought I should get some more info from the elites to hopefully not screw my kid up too much.
 
If you can get hand-me- down clothes that will save you a lot of dough.

However, the essentials I would register for:

A nice stroller. It goes along way get something good.
The nose flueta - snot sucker used by your mouth. Thing is awesome.
A good monitor is nice.
Toys/trinkets are just clutter.
 
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Things I found to be beneficial:
Changing Table
Seal tight garbage can for diapers/wipes
Buying diapers right now each time you get groceries to stock up
Food processor to make your own baby food

Waste of money:
Bottle warmer
Diaper genie
High priced monitor, do you need to know the humidity and temperature in their room?
 
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This little gem rocks, oscillates, swings and vibrates. My son and wife got one for their newborn and they are awesome. Puts the grandson right to sleep.
 
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Get a device that rings your cell phone on demand. Then, when the little bastard shits his pants you can make it look like you have an important call and the old lady will have to change the diapers.
 
The graco swings are garbage. The motor is crap. Don't waste your money.

Otherwise... Diapers. All the diapers you can get.
 
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Wipe warmer.

I don't know from first-hand experience, but I gotta think it's unpleasant to have the coin purse cleaned by a cold wipe.
 
we had a noise machine in my boy's room. white noise, waterfall and other nature type noises. It was nice during spring and summer during storms. If we knew it was going to be a stormy evening, we would turn it up a little louder than we normally would keep it at.
 
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The wife voted on cloth diapers so hopefully we will see some savings there. I have a sprayer installed on our toilet already. She also plans to breastfeed (no pic) so hopefully our kid is smarter and I get a DD for a couple months longer.

How much are the Korean housemaids? What kind of choices do they offer? Are North or South Koreans better for this task? Do they ship them right away or should I plan to order a few months in advance to allow for shipping time?

Thanks for all the tips so far!
 
Clothe diapers? Don't see that lasting after some of the epic shits babies take. I say a good stroller/child seat combo that hook into each other. Also, a baby swing. Our kids loved those fricking things. We also had a diaper genie to dispose of all the toxic waste.
 
Wipe warmer.

I don't know from first-hand experience, but I gotta think it's unpleasant to have the coin purse cleaned by a cold wipe.

I forgot about that one -- good call. I also loved the diaper genie and can't imagine why anybody would say not to get one. Really eliminated the odor and made disposal of those toxic things clean and easy.

Open a 529 account and a PayPal account. Setup a family web page (or I guess your FaceBook page) with a link to PayPal for donations. Tell anybody that whenever they're tempted to buy a stuffed toy, donate 20 bucks to the college fund. Tell all relatives that instead of writing a check for birthdays donate to the college fund. Every so often roll the PayPal balance into your 529. Your welcome.
 
  • Diaper genie
  • Changing table
  • Rocking chair
  • Nose sucker
  • Wipe warmer
  • Rash cream
  • As many throw up rags as you can afford
  • Learn how to wrap your kid burrito style
  • Download a noise maker app for an iPad
I'm sure there's more, but that's just off the top of my head.
 
Not much different to add but let me warn you, the next year will be the easiest one of the next 18. Unless you luck out and get a good teenager, they are hit and miss.
 
Best diapers are whatever ones won't leak, that stuff is nasty. Try to get your wife involved in the public breastfeeding movement. We can never have enough women pulling their breasts out in public.
Place an ad on craigslist for a wet nurse and share your replies.
 
A clip on mirror for your rear view mirror, can see the kid and the road must have
 
My wife (no pregger wife pic) and I are expecting our first child in June and are getting ready to register for the baby shower. What are some must haves, best brands and/or worthless things that we will be needing/not needing. We stopped into Buy Buy Baby in Des Moines a couple weeks ago and most things seemed like a waste of money to me. I've done some additional online research but thought I should get some more info from the elites to hopefully not screw my kid up too much.
Kids live mostly in Onseys?, especially those born in the summer. So most of the clothes you buy are way to small or worthless by the time you try to put your kid in them.

The best diaper rash stuff is actually Lotrimin for athletes foot, same stuff in a stronger formula and cheaper. Put it on and leave the diaper off for an hour or so, it will wipe out the worst diaper rash super fast.

Balmex beats everything else for an ointment.

Get a tape or CD that helps when kids have collick, get it now, do not wait, you can always sell it later!!!!! It is white noise. In my day I taped a vacuum cleaner running and ran it in a loop. There is better stuff out there now.

I was never a fan of the diaper genie, our dog always got into it and made one heck of a mess.

Good cloth diapers, buy some, about a dozen. They make great spit up wipes, you will be glad you did.

If you are nursing (your wife), spend the money on a very good breast pump, over a grand. Otherwise she will always be pumping.

Do not waste your money on a Bassinet or Cradle, the kid will be out of the cradle in a month or two. Lay blankets on the floor and change the kid on the floor, easier than fighting your kid rolling off the bassinet.

Pack and play....essential as you use it as a portable crib when you travel or visit family/friends.

BTW, you will not save much money with cloth diapers. Those things are pricey and you go through tons of detergent, water and energy to dry. More diaper rash however.
 
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-baby monitor
-a six pack of favorite beer at all times
-diapers
-sleep deprivation training
-patience
-enjoy it, they grow up quick




Pic of wife when not preggo?​
 
Diapers and wipes are the biggest items i can recommend. Saving trips to the store at $40 a pop will change your mood when you're dead ass tired for the first 6 months and you will remember who got you those.

As for other things I recommend a good stroller like a BOB (go ahead and get a double if you're planning for #2 soon) and a variety of swaddles/sleep sacks. Different things work for different kids and it was like roulette trying to find the right one for our daughter.
 
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Do not waste your money on a Bassinet or Cradle, the kid will be out of the cradle in a month or two. Lay blankets on the floor and change the kid on the floor, easier than fighting your kid rolling off the bassinet.

I was fortunate in this regard. My boy had one of his feet clubbed. He went through the Ponseti (RIP) method of treatment. He spent the early part of his life with a cast on one foot and wearing the shoes with the bar in between. That bar was a pretty damned good handle when cleaning up mess on the changing table

on a side note, we try to take our boy down to the Ponseti races down in IC when we can. it is typically held on a Hawkeye football bye week
http://ponsetiraces.com/
 
No clothes.

Everyone will get the tiniest newborn clothes which will fit the baby for about a week.

I know it sounds cheap, but babies grow so fast, secondhand clothes are absolutely the way to go.
 
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Box fan
Diapers/wipes
A&D
Swing cradle (plug in would be okay/no batteries)
Batteries
Gift certificates so the wife can get what she wants for clothes. Children's place and carter's is about it. Hell, going to consignment stores is the way to go or getting from friends/relatives.
Chair that you can strap to a regular chair or just sit on the floor.
Walker/bouncer with all the toys and shit on it.
We've had three kids in the last six years. I'd really suggest keeping it as simple as possible. Less is best because all of their stuff adds up fast. Especially if you plan on having more. It gets ridiculous.
 
Seriously, diapers. Going cloth will save some serious $$ up front but you'll be changing more often and running the washer/dryer more. If they still have an odor you might have to turn up your water heater.

You'll want SOME disposables for trips and such...you do NOT want to be sharing the car space with stanky cloth diapers.

Get wipes...lots of wipes. Like others said, after the basics the best gift is money so you can get what you want. BTW, if you're planning for another in the near future, go ahead and get a two seat stroller. You can use the extra seat for storage until Thing 2 shows up.
 
The burrito miracle blanket was awesome. Wraps them up so they can't thrash around and wake themselves up. They were sleeping through the night in no time.
 
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Its funny seeing what some like and others hated.

if you will be bottle feeding at all, a bottle warmer is the way to go. we had dr. Browns and would never go without.

Have a nice 250$ video monitor and it saves many times of getting out of bed to check on him.

We got a baby bjorn height chair and it is awesome. all plastic, comfortable and portable. We got it on sale.

Dont buy toys or fancy clothes for a baby. they dont need much and its a waste of money.

A good swing is a must. we tried like 10 brands of passys before finding the right one.

Buy a small portable stroller that holds the bucket carseat. must be easy to use and light weight so she can use it. nothing worse than having to wrestle with a huge stroller. We had chicco liteway and still use that sucker.
 
18 year old Korean housemaid.
She will help take care of the kid and the dad.
And don't forget to keep the Democrats and Bernie Sanders happy by paying her 15.00 / Hr plus benefits. ( 3 weeks paid vacation, 8 holidays, 5 personal days, 14 sick days, 3 bereavement days, match her 401K up to 10% of her wages, 10K life insurance and health care policy for her and /or her domestic partner )
 
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