Married Woman and Extrication

[GOHOX69]

Facts, first. I have a unmarried (as am I), long time lady friend. I befriended a married woman who I know through a job contact. My goal was purely to see that she was not mentally abused at that job since I worked there before she was hired and I know the boss is an ahole (understatement). I gave her my number to text me if she had any work related issues. Well within 2 weeks, I've learned she is in a failed marriage, when she's ovulating, favorite foods, things I should do for self-betterment etc etc. She is also 16 years younger than I am. So studs, do you ever get in such a bind? The solution is stop all communication, right?

 

[THE_DEVIL]

ahem...

 

[mthawkeyes]

 

[TarponSpringsNole]

 

[GOHOX69]

Prison sucks, worse

 

[millah_22]

So why is she staying in the marriage?

 

[Whiskeydeltadeltatango]

Lol.

OP got friend zoned and thinks it's cool.

 

[IACub]

 

[mnole03]

Fake your deportation by ICE. Have someone send her a text saying you are in a Salvadoran prison and that’s why you aren’t responding.

 

[Whiskeydeltadeltatango]

Fake your deportation by ICE. Have someone send her a text saying you are in a Salvadoran prison and that’s why you aren’t responding.

This is the way.

 

[GOHOX69]

So why is she staying in the marriage?

She wants out.

 

[Moral]

I've learned she is in a failed marriage, when she's ovulating, favorite foods, things I should do for self-betterment etc etc.

I would have already started ghosting. Self betterment advice crosses the line for me.

 

[GOHOX69]

Nyah man. No can do.

 

[NorthernHawkeye]

Facts, first. I have a unmarried (as am I), long time lady friend. I befriended a married woman who I know through a job contact.

What does one have to do with the other?

 

[millah_22]

She wants out.

So what's stopping her?

 

[TarponSpringsNole]

What does one have to do with the other?

He’s pointing out the contrast in his relationships between a married and unmarried woman.
Something that might be odd, funny, irritable, etc. Is nuance new to you?

 

[Whiskeydeltadeltatango]

So what's stopping her?

Existence

 

[millah_22]

I would have already started ghosting. Self betterment advice crosses the line for me.

I was unkowingly part of an affair. I started hooking up with a co-worker when she said she broke it off with her fiance. Except she didn't break it off with her fiance. She said she just made some deal that since she had never been with other people before, she wanted to explore. Except there was no deal, she was just doing it without him knowing.

I ghosted so hard, and then when I'd see her at work i would just stare straight forward and never look at her 😎

She eventually broke it off with her fiance.

 

[GOHOX69]

So what's stopping her?

I think the husband intimidates her.

 

[Moral]

I was unkowingly part of an affair. I started hooking up with a co-worker when she said she broke it off with her fiance. Except she didn't break it off with her fiance. She said she just made some deal that since she had never been with other people before, she wanted to explore. Except there was no deal, she was just doing it without him knowing.

I ghosted so hard, and then when I'd see her at work i would just stare straight forward and never look at her 😎

She eventually broke it off with her fiance.

Good for him whether he knows it or not.

 

[GOHOX69]

I was unkowingly part of an affair. I started hooking up with a co-worker when she said she broke it off with her fiance. Except she didn't break it off with her fiance. She said she just made some deal that since she had never been with other people before, she wanted to explore. Except there was no deal, she was just doing it without him knowing.

I ghosted so hard, and then when I'd see her at work i would just stare straight forward and never look at her 😎

She eventually broke it off with her fiance.

Thank god I don't work with her. Jesus.

 

[Whiskeydeltadeltatango]

I think the husband intimidates her.

So the hierarchy you are setting up is


Dominant asshole> her submissive to him but leading you in sexual discussion> you.



You sure about that?


Hunters hunt bro, you have a scavenger problem.

 

[Hans81]

Facts, first. I have an unmarried (as am I), long time lady friend. I befriended a married woman who I know through a job contact. My goal was purely to see that she was not mentally abused at that job since I worked there before she was hired and I know the boss is an ahole (understatement). I gave her my number to text me if she had any work related issues. Well within 2 weeks, I've learned she is in a failed marriage, when she's ovulating, favorite foods, things I should do for self-betterment etc etc. She is also 16 years younger than I am. So studs, do you ever get in such a bind? The solution is stop all communication, right?

Pic?

 

[millah_22]

Good for him whether he knows it or not.

She was super smart and honestly had a pretty nice bod, but she was a bit of a bitch. I do not think it would have lasted. Plus I was like 21.

 

[TarponSpringsNole]

Hunters hunt bro, you have a scavenger problem.

 

[Whiskeydeltadeltatango]

You think focused people have time to listen to some lady 15 year younger than them bitch about their marriage?

If any of this were real it would have been "and here is her tits".




He should have gone with "husband is a raging pussy" it would have atleast made the story entertaining.

 

[hawkeye54545]

OP is a veteran of this place and usually a solid poster so maybe I just over looked the pics?

 

[millah_22]

Thank god I don't work with her. Jesus.

I don't think you have the game to hit it with her.

 

[Whiskeydeltadeltatango]

I don't think you have the game to hit it with her.

bUt wHaT wAs AlL tHaT OvUlAtIOn TaLk!?


Haha

 

[old brother]

Facts, first. I have an unmarried (as am I), long time lady friend. I befriended a married woman who I know through a job contact. My goal was purely to see that she was not mentally abused at that job since I worked there before she was hired and I know the boss is an ahole (understatement). I gave her my number to text me if she had any work related issues. Well within 2 weeks, I've learned she is in a failed marriage, when she's ovulating, favorite foods, things I should do for self-betterment etc etc. She is also 16 years younger than I am. So studs, do you ever get in such a bind? The solution is stop all communication, right?

Don’t do it

 

[luvmyhawks]

Sounds like you should probably have sex with her. That is the only solution I can come up with.

 

[h-hawk]

 

[hydro2.0]

lol sets up the “purely wanted to make sure she’s alright” fuk off. You’ve wanted to fuk this chick all along.

 

[Sharky1203]

Facts, first. I have a unmarried (as am I), long time lady friend. I befriended a married woman who I know through a job contact. My goal was purely to see that she was not mentally abused at that job since I worked there before she was hired and I know the boss is an ahole (understatement). I gave her my number to text me if she had any work related issues. Well within 2 weeks, I've learned she is in a failed marriage, when she's ovulating, favorite foods, things I should do for self-betterment etc etc. She is also 16 years younger than I am. So studs, do you ever get in such a bind? The solution is stop all communication, right?

Just a friendly bit of advise I got from my grandpappy.
"NEVER MESS WITH ANOTHER MAN'S LADY. NO MATTER HOW BAD IT IS. YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT THE MENTAL STATE OF THE MAN IS."

Just wait (if you're interested) until she gets him way out of the picture.

That just my opinion.

 

[TDJ7]

I was unkowingly part of an affair. I started hooking up with a co-worker when she said she broke it off with her fiance. Except she didn't break it off with her fiance. She said she just made some deal that since she had never been with other people before, she wanted to explore. Except there was no deal, she was just doing it without him knowing.

I ghosted so hard, and then when I'd see her at work i would just stare straight forward and never look at her 😎

She eventually broke it off with her fiance.

 

[GOHOX69]

I don't think you have the game to hit it with her.

Correct. And I don't want such game.

 

[millah_22]

Not now, but when I was 21 I bet I could.

 

[jellyfish10]

I had a similar situation a few years ago. I did some work collaboration with a woman a little younger than me. Smart, funny, gorgeous…and married. She started asking me to do things together. We would go hiking, go to the pool, have drinks at each other’s houses.

I ended up meeting with her and her husband to discuss our friendship. I didn’t want to be complicit in negatively impacting a marriage. They assured me that it was no problem, their relationship was strong, and this wasn’t abnormal for her.

As time went on our feelings progressed. We never acted on them physically but it was clear that the line was getting blurry. Out of the blue she told me that she had asked her husband to move out and shortly thereafter I cut off all communication. That was exactly what I did not want. I was naive and we were both definitely wrong. I believe they are still married but regardless, it is not something I’m proud of.

Tread lightly OP.

 

[THE_DEVIL]

Prison sucks, worse

Well now that depends on which end of the stick your on now doesn’t it

 

[ICWestfan]

So the hierarchy you are setting up is


Dominant asshole> her submissive to him but leading you in sexual discussion> you.



You sure about that?


Hunters hunt bro, you have a scavenger problem.