Every one deals with scary stuff differently.
I'm gonna keep typing it because you guys don't get it. It's not up to you to determine how anyone process, deals with, rejects or handles information. If McLovin wants to joke about, and to be fair I was gonna make the same comment, that's fine. if you don't like it just ignore it. You don't have to try and tell someone how they need to respond to certain things. I'm sure there stuff you respond to that I think its a disgusting way to it. But, I'm not selfish enough to tell you how you should react cause its not like me. And save me the social awareness bullcrap. This is a message board and you don't know the vicitm. If she is that.
Do I have to be "having a hard time with my feelings" to make that comment or a joke. Nope. Would I make it if it bring a smile to one person's face even though it might piss off everyone else, hell yes.
Not everybody sees a missing person and immediately says OMG this is the worst thing ever, I don't want to think about it, it's too painful, what if it was my kid. If that's you more power to you. But, every one deals with scary stuff differently. Some like to deflect with humors, others like to get sad, others get angry, others hit the little X in the top right of the screen.