100 percent of trans people just want to live their lives like everyone else gets to. In private, and without people like the OP giving himself the vapors getting all worked up over people he'll never meet. But, there is profitability in rage politics and bullying a very, very small minority of the population.
This is a very idealistic take on this whole situation.
This situation is not necessarily a problem toward trans people, it is more an issue with how we got to this point.
The standards of care for gender dysphoria used to be way more objective in the past. I believe it way 2011, these standards were updated by a bunch of trans activists/doctors who got rid of a lot of the criteria for diagnosis and went to gender affirming care (patient decides what is wrong and how they want to be treated).
During this same time, gay rights and gay marriage was the big push. Gender affirmation got lumped in with gay rights because it was easy.
This is where politics come in play. If an individual or doctor opposed gender affirming care, then they would be labeled homophobic and transphobic. And eventually led to lots of people being canceled. This movement successfully got the public to get on board with gender affirming care (or at least stop opposing it).
The really interesting thing is, there is no solid data that shows gender affirming care is beneficial, nor is hormones or surgery.
The biggest data point in favor of hormones and gender affirming care was to decrease the suicide rate, but these numbers have actually increased sine 2011.