Hayden Fry was a man of integrity and courage, a Marine who demanded discipline but who accepted individual and cultural differences. Fry had a creative offensive mind, but he knew defense wins championships. But knowing that didn't stop him from putting together high-scoring, entertaining teams. He knew that taking calculated risks was smart. And he knew that keeping the other team guessing helped him gain a winning edge.
Hayden was one of those especially individual personalities. A product of his West Texas upbringing, he was his own person in every way. He was emotional, and he wasn't too macho to show those emotions publicly.
There should be no doubt that Hayden Fry was the architect of every good thing associated with Iowa football for nearly half a century. That his 1985 team, ranked #1 in the nation most of the season, was denied the national title and Rose Bowl championship, will always be one of the great disappointments for Hawkeye fans.
IMHO, no one can say enough good things or give enough credit to Hayden Fry for turning the graveyard of coaches and the laughingstock of college football into a perennial Big Ten and national power, and doing it with class, creativity, and empathy.