Oh my. Don't get me started on youth wrestling. (Like anyone actually cares what I think anyway)
Although I would like to hear how they do it in PA, especially at Young Guns.
I can't speak to PA, but I'm extremely familiar with neighboring NJ. Here is what we had. Our local youth program was for grades 2 through 8. We had two practices each week, but we contracted a local club to run a 3rd practice each week. We usually had between 100 and 120 kids in the program in a town of about 25,000. Some kids did nothing outside of this rec league.
Our team was in a rec league with 50 other teams. Each Saturday we had meets between 3 or 4 towns in which kids were matched against opponents of similar size, weight, age, and skill level. At the end of the season we had five "District" tournaments, with the top 2 kids from each of the districts advancing to the "Region" tournament, which was essentially the league championships. A handful of towns also hosted an annual invitational tournament at some point during the season. So a typical rec kid practiced 3 nights a week, got in 10 or 12 matches on Saturdays, and wrestled in 3 or 4 tournaments. In season.
In addition, about 15 of the better towns formed a "dual league". The league had 18 weight classes, with no age restrictions -- so you could have a 3rd grader going against an 8th grader if they were the same weight. You typically had 6 or 7 dual meets, which were pretty competitive with some very strong wrestling. This league also had a tournament at the end of the year, and each weight's league champion also wrestled in an all-star meet against another league.
Of course, USA Wrestling also hosted a series of state qualifying tournaments, as well as an individual youth state championship. I'd say 30% to 40% of our kids would at least try to qualify for states. If you failed at one qualifier you could try again at another.
So a reasonably competitive kid might wrestle 50 or so matches in season, much of which was against very good competition.
Of course, the hyper-competitive kids would also attend one or more clubs, and might also get private lessons. Using my son as an example, we had about six quality clubs within 30 minutes, and he liked to go once a week to a different club, just to mix things up. That was from about 4th grade through 7th grade. At that point he upped it to twice a week, and his last year in high school we also took private lessons from a local DIII coach. Some of these clubs were very, very good. He rolled around with some really good kids, like Joey McKenna and David McFadden; and my son was just a fairly competitive kid -- the top kids wrestled at clubs 3 or 4 days a week and took privates starting in 4th or 5th grade.
I know in Eastern PA it was similar.