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Restaurant server pet peeves

Really? The “terms of endearment” actually bother you?

We've got an early-60’ish receptionist at work who's as nice as can be; calls everybody “Doll”, “Hun”, “Babe” etc. I think it's charming.

But then again, I'm 57 myself so these harmless echoes of a simpler time don't really bug me.
 
Maybe try eating at a more sophisticated establishment where they cater to your wants and treat you with a higher level of class?
 
Having worked in the food service industry, growing up, I tend to be pretty understanding / accommodating of waitstaff. That said, the only things that bother me are:

1) poorly spacing out the meal (eg. Bringing entrees five minutes after delivering salads/appetizers); and

2) poorly made drinks/cocktails (if the restaurant has an expensive wine list and features “signature cocktails” then they should spend the money to employ a skilled and knowledgeable bartending crew)
 
Really? The “terms of endearment” actually bother you?

We've got an early-60’ish receptionist at work who's as nice as can be; calls everybody “Doll”, “Hun”, “Babe” etc. I think it's charming.

But then again, I'm 57 myself so these harmless echoes of a simpler time don't really bug me.
It doesn’t bother me to the extent it ruins my meal or anything. I also don’t mind it once or twice. Just ending every statement with hon or honey or love is silly, IMO.

For the record, I still tipped very well.
 
The only thing that bothers me at a restaurant is when it's half empty, we're a table of 2 and you sit us right next to a table of 14 drunks at happy hour having after work drinks. Move me to the other side of the damn restaurant so we can hear our conversation. You can call me sweet cheeks all day I don't care about that.

Oh this happened just last Thursday night is the only reason I bring it up. Was awesome eating with my wife with out being able to have a conversation. Idiots. Normally the wife would tell them to move us but for some reason she wasn't in the mood to complain.
 
Not a yankee, but I do drink unsweet.

I used to drink a ton of sweet tea until realizing how bad it is for you.
Well, to answer the question, "Restaurant server pet peeves", I get irritated when my server is nowhere to be found. 10 min until they make their first appearance, then never come back and you have to walk into the kitchen to find them to ask for a refill. That's more of a pet peeve then prompt service where they call me sweetie. :cool:
 
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The only thing that bothers me at a restaurant is when it's half empty, we're a table of 2 and you sit us right next to a table of 14 drunks at happy hour having after work drinks. Move me to the other side of the damn restaurant so we can hear our conversation. You can call me sweet cheeks all day I don't care about that.

Oh this happened just last Thursday night is the only reason I bring it up. Was awesome eating with my wife with out being able to have a conversation. Idiots. Normally the wife would tell them to move us but for some reason she wasn't in the mood to complain.
And you weren't man enough to say something to keep your wife happy? :)
 
“What can I get you, hon?”

“No problem, I got you luv.”

“Need a refill, babe?”


Just stop!!!

How about you?
If I'm at a fine dining place, yeah, I don't need the "huns" and the "babes." If I'm at the Mid City Diner, I expect them and I am disappointed if I don't get them. There is a time and a place for everything.
 
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“What can I get you, hon?”

“No problem, I got you luv.”

“Need a refill, babe?”


Just stop!!!

How about you?


That's a first world problem if there ever was one.

My only pet peeve is when I ask for extra napkins and they say "sure" then forget to bring them and I have to ask again.
 
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