I was just speaking to your question. Do they enjoy seeing it? No. Would they rather see it be gone? Sure.
Now I'm sure that doesn't characterize all their opinions. But I wouldn't call it an unreasonable opinion.
Some of this stuff.... there is no making up for. It's forever an open wound. Something that can always be mined.
All that said, no, I don't think tearing down the monuments is a concession America has to make. And lots of these concessions don't fix anything much. The wound remains.
About the best you can do is to create a new future in which we all participate and enjoy as close to equally as possible.
About the best you can do is to help create a world that Native Americans might thrive in today.
And yes, I suppose, in a way, that's just pulling focus off the past. That's an interesting question, what to do with that sort of past. The best I can come up with is a better future.
I think you want the past to die.