Not to pry but no intimacy with wife for 2 years? Was that because of the drinking? If not it's possible your marriage had other problems than just your drinking.Relationship wise and physically. We haven't lived together for two months, no intimacy in just under two years. We have two young children. That said, we talk multiple times every day and spend time together several times/week.
The cousin has multiple businesses under his umbrella, about $400 million in sales annually while being highly profitable. At 52, this could be one to retire on.