Do women ever sexually harass or make inappropriate comments to you at work?

[BrianNole777]

How do you respond?

I work/volunteer part-time at a non-profit that's basically a social club for older adults. The staff are 4 women all in their 50's. (No pics.)

I never talk about my personal life in the work place. It's unprofessional. Business is business. I'd rather post about it on HBOT.

I went to a holiday party with the staff last month. When I walked in, one of the staff women looked me up and down and said "You look terrific!" She's married to a cardiologist, by the way with three adults kids.

I was dressed well, admittedly, but I felt uncomfortable for a few seconds. I just responded by saying: "Thanks" then changed the subject.

Occasionally, some of the members will say REALLY inappropriate things to me like asking: "Do women throw themselves at you?" but keep in mind these women are 82 years old so it's different than someone younger that's more of sound mind. I can tolerate that better.

One member who I knew very well asked if I was gay because I'm not married. That was awkward. I just said "No" then she asked if I've ever had a girlfriend. My answer was "Yes."

In my world, the women are usually age 50-90 so it's different I suppose then the rest of HBOT.

I am a ginger. Of course, comments are flattering BUT this talk isn't really appropriate in the work place.

Does this ever happen to you? Got any stories? How do you respond?

 

[binsfeldcyhawk2]

 

[torbee]

PIIITB OR STFU AND GTFO 🙄

 

[Fan In Black]

I want to party with those chicks.

 

[BrianNole777]

PIIITB OR STFU AND GTFO 🙄

WTF! 😆

They're old!

 

[hawkeyetraveler]

Back in the day (90’s and 00’s) I had a number of things happen to me that would likely be classified as sexual harassment now. Example: had a hot coworker get very handsy on my junk under the table at a business dinner. I didn’t think of it as harassment, was kind of fun in thinking through whether I make a move or back myself out of it and what I could do to stop the ol’ traveler from growing rather…excited (had just started dating a coworker at the time but we weren’t in a committed relationship yet). It was probably best for my career and my relationship that I didn’t reciprocate. Instead after dinner I introduced her to another colleague who ended up taking her to pound town repeatedly.

Anyway, I always found sexually aggressive women to be fun and never considered it harassment in any way. OP, you seem wound a little tight. Maybe stop overthinking it and enjoy the fact these women find you attractive.

 

[DFSNOLE]

Brian, the "no pics" is tired and unnecessary.

 

[SolarHawk]

OP, lighten up lol. I don’t think anything you stated in your post could be construed as harassment. Are you gen z or something? To answer the question, not really. Outside of work I have been “cat called” if you will, but I take it as a compliment. It’s usually older women and black women. I don’t know why, maybe it’s because black women and older women are more likely to speak their mind? Oh, and the gays love me, so I got that going for me 😂

 

[SolarHawk]

Brian, the "no pics" is tired and unnecessary.

Listen pal, it’s kind of a staple around here, so back off my boi!

 

[runkpanole]

OPs mom likes to harass me. I think she must have peaked into the bathroom and saw my Johnson and now she can’t leave me alone.

 

[NorthernHawkeye]

Generally speaking, women at age 50+ have "fallen off the cliff". That "cliff" being relevancy. They're on a physical decline and most have come to accept it. The days of them catching guys glimpsing at them are waning. The pretty privilege found in the form receiving attention from men has subsided. Essentially they've lost their magic potion.

Now you may ask, how does this relate to the question in the OP? When in fact the answer is contained within the OP. It's the age group. 50+ women have to go on the hunt in an attempt to fill the void of their previous time of adornment.

 

[QChawks]

 

[hawkdave007]

How do you respond?

I work/volunteer part-time at a non-profit that's basically a social club for older adults. The staff are 4 women all in their 50's. (No pics.)

I never talk about my personal life in the work place. It's unprofessional. Business is business. I'd rather post about it on HBOT.

I went to a holiday party with the staff last month. When I walked in, one of the staff women looked me up and down and said "You look terrific!" She's married to a cardiologist, by the way with three adults kids.

I was dressed well, admittedly, but I felt uncomfortable for a few seconds. I just responded by saying: "Thanks" then changed the subject.

Occasionally, some of the members will say REALLY inappropriate things to me like asking: "Do women throw themselves at you?" but keep in mind these women are 82 years old so it's different than someone younger that's more of sound mind. I can tolerate that better.

One member who I knew very well asked if I was gay because I'm not married. That was awkward. I just said "No" then she asked if I've ever had a girlfriend. My answer was "Yes."

In my world, the women are usually age 50-90 so it's different I suppose then the rest of HBOT.

I am a ginger. Of course, comments are flattering BUT this talk isn't really appropriate in the work place.

Does this ever happen to you? Got any stories? How do you respond?

Women always want what they can't have, and they are competitive.

Bedding BrianNole77 has probably become "trophy" of sorts, due to your sincere piety.

The more you resist, the more intense they will be in coming-on to you.

Hire a super hot escort, just to be your arm candy at the next work event (no sexy-sex afterwards). Then they'll all realize that they are way out of your league and leave you alone.

 

[SolarHawk]

Women always want what they can't have, and they are competitive.

Bedding BrianNole77 has probably become "trophy" of sorts, due to your sincere piety.

The more you resist, the more intense they will be in coming-on to you.

Hire a super hot escort, just to be your arm candy at the next work event (no sexy-sex afterwards). Then they'll all realize that they are way out of your league and leave you alone.

So, your advice is to skip the best part? Da fuq?

 

[SolarHawk]

Generally speaking, women at age 50+ have "fallen off the cliff". That "cliff" being relevancy. They're on a physical decline and most have come to accept it. The days of them catching guys glimpsing at them are waning. The pretty privilege found in the form receiving attention from men has subsided. Essentially they've lost their magic potion.

Now you may ask, how does this relate to the question in the OP? When in fact the answer is contained within the OP. It's the age group. 50+ women have to go on the hunt in an attempt to fill the void of their previous time of adornment.

 

[Ferentz_Fan]

Just do it. No one has to ever know.

 

[McLovin32]

Generally speaking, women at age 50+ have "fallen off the cliff". That "cliff" being relevancy. They're on a physical decline and most have come to accept it. The days of them catching guys glimpsing at them are waning. The pretty privilege found in the form receiving attention from men has subsided. Essentially they've lost their magic potion.

Now you may ask, how does this relate to the question in the OP? When in fact the answer is contained within the OP. It's the age group. 50+ women have to go on the hunt in an attempt to fill the void of their previous time of adornment.

Their running form generally changes around the age of 50, so you're spot on with this assessment.

 

[WSC72]

No, I’m old, ugly, curmudgeonly, stupid, slow witted and poor

 

[hawkdave007]

So, your advice is to skip the best part? Da fuq?

Hey now, this is the reverent @BrianNole777 we're talkin' about here, not some common HBOT horndog fornicator.

 

[SolarHawk]

Hey now, this is the reverent @BrianNole777 we're talkin' about here, not some common HBOT horndog fornicator.

Touché good sir.

 

[SolarHawk]

No, I’m old, ugly, curmudgeonly, stupid, slow witted and poor

That’s no way to go through life son.

 

[runkpanole]

Generally speaking, women at age 50+ have "fallen off the cliff". That "cliff" being relevancy. They're on a physical decline and most have come to accept it. The days of them catching guys glimpsing at them are waning. The pretty privilege found in the form receiving attention from men has subsided. Essentially they've lost their magic potion.

Now you may ask, how does this relate to the question in the OP? When in fact the answer is contained within the OP. It's the age group. 50+ women have to go on the hunt in an attempt to fill the void of their previous time of adornment.

Your wife will never lose her magic with me.

 

[WSC72]

That’s no way to go through life son.

It’s the only option I got 😇

 

[millah_22]

They're constantly looking at my tits.

 

[soonerinlOUisiana]

I watched about half a season of workaholics. When Alice gets all foul mouthed, that’s probably sexual harassment, but it’s kinda hot.

 

[BrianNole777]

Women always want what they can't have, and they are competitive.

Bedding BrianNole77 has probably become "trophy" of sorts, due to your sincere piety.

The more you resist, the more intense they will be in coming-on to you.

Hire a super hot escort, just to be your arm candy at the next work event (no sexy-sex afterwards). Then they'll all realize that they are way out of your league and leave you alone.

Couple problems with this:

1.) I never discuss religion at work. That's another personal matter that I try to avoid.

2.) I'm too cheap to hire a fake girlfriend for a night. 😆

 

[BrianNole777]

Brian, the "no pics" is tired and unnecessary.

And how should I respond when HBOT asks for pics??

 

[SolarHawk]

Couple problems with this:

1.) I never discuss religion at work. That's a other personal matter that I try to avoid.

2.) I'm too cheap to hire a fake girlfriend for a night. 😆

Uhhh, you don’t try to spread the good word and help others find their way to Christ?


SHAME!!!!!!!!

 

[SolarHawk]

And how should I respond when HBOT asks for pics??

Post pics duh

 

[BrianNole777]

Uhhh, you don’t try to spread the good word and help others find their way to Christ?


SHAME!!!!!!!!

Three of my co-workers are Jewish and the other a super liberal Unitarian.

Evangelizing would go over like a lead balloon...

 

[SolarHawk]

Three of my co-workers are Jewish and the other a super liberal Unitarian.

Evangelizing would go over like a lead balloon...

WWJD?

 

[BrianNole777]

WWJD?

He got crucified...I'm not that brave.

 

[Fan In Black]

if you say harass like hair-is and not ha-rass you are ass smell.

 

[BrianNole777]

Post pics duh

I DIDN'T ASK YOU!!!

 

[WSC72]

if you say harass like hair-is and not ha-rass you are ass smell.

I pronounce it Hor Ass. Probably another trait that diminishes my chances with the ladies

 

[BrianNole777]

Generally speaking, women at age 50+ have "fallen off the cliff". That "cliff" being relevancy. They're on a physical decline and most have come to accept it. The days of them catching guys glimpsing at them are waning. The pretty privilege found in the form receiving attention from men has subsided. Essentially they've lost their magic potion.

Now you may ask, how does this relate to the question in the OP? When in fact the answer is contained within the OP. It's the age group. 50+ women have to go on the hunt in an attempt to fill the void of their previous time of adornment.

How old is your sister?

 

[hawkdave007]

Couple problems with this:

1.) I never discuss religion at work. That's another personal matter that I try to avoid.

2.) I'm too cheap to hire a fake girlfriend for a night. 😆

Probably best to just make up a fake girlfriend and talk about her all of the time.

 

[SoProudNole]

How do you respond?

I work/volunteer part-time at a non-profit that's basically a social club for older adults. The staff are 4 women all in their 50's. (No pics.)

I never talk about my personal life in the work place. It's unprofessional. Business is business. I'd rather post about it on HBOT.

I went to a holiday party with the staff last month. When I walked in, one of the staff women looked me up and down and said "You look terrific!" She's married to a cardiologist, by the way with three adults kids.

I was dressed well, admittedly, but I felt uncomfortable for a few seconds. I just responded by saying: "Thanks" then changed the subject.

Occasionally, some of the members will say REALLY inappropriate things to me like asking: "Do women throw themselves at you?" but keep in mind these women are 82 years old so it's different than someone younger that's more of sound mind. I can tolerate that better.

One member who I knew very well asked if I was gay because I'm not married. That was awkward. I just said "No" then she asked if I've ever had a girlfriend. My answer was "Yes."

In my world, the women are usually age 50-90 so it's different I suppose then the rest of HBOT.

I am a ginger. Of course, comments are flattering BUT this talk isn't really appropriate in the work place.

Does this ever happen to you? Got any stories? How do you respond?

Seriously, why would anyone invite you to a party?

 

[BrianNole777]

Seriously, why would anyone invite you to a party?

How do you know I didn't invite myself? 😀