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How old were your children when they started kindergarten?

No kids, but I started when I was 6...October birthday. As an elementary school teacher(24 years), I saw so many immature boys all the way up to 6th grade. 6th grade, kinder, & first grade boys were where I saw so much stupid going on. I get it when your are 6 & 7 years old, but come on man, when you are 12 !!! A lot of girls in k-3 were more mature than some of the 6th grade boys I had to have a coming to Jesus meeting !!

If you're debating on when to start your kid in school, it's never a bad move to wait a year. Heck down here in Texas ( in my former school district that is one of the legendary TXHSFB programs) many athletes are "redshirted" in 7th grade !!
Did you turn 7 in October of your Kindergarten year or turned 6 in October? 7 in October of K would mean you turned 19 in October of your senior year?
 
4 and 4, both boys.

Started that way because of their preschool offered private kindergarten and that was the track they were on. Both tested out of kindergarten when transitioning to public school, but placed both “back” into kindergarten regardless. Felt it was better for both of them from a maturity standpoint.
 
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No, the real question is how many of you had children turn 7 by December of their kindergarten year. That's the point being argued in the other thread that the OP is avoiding mentioning.
No. You're wrong yet again. The point is you're a fool for claiming it's a "red flag" because someone is old for their grade.
 
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Actually there are 2 check posts #38 and #73.
Nope, #73 corrected his in #85, turned 6 in October. The premise was so ridiculous he didn't realize what you're suggesting.
#38 is likely being sarcastic and you're missing the joke. You're embarrassing yourself.
 
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No. You're wrong yet again. The point is you're a fool for claiming it's a "red flag" because someone is old for their grade.
No, I claimed in this case it was likely one of many. Those were my exact words and as we're learning I'm right.
Your lying makes your loss taste better though. Keep it up.
 
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Nope, #73 corrected his in #85, turned 6 in October. The premise was so ridiculous he didn't realize what you're suggesting.
#38 is likely being sarcastic and you're missing the joke. You're embarrassing yourself.
#38 may be a joke, but not as big a joke as your original post that started this argument.

Are normal well adjusted kids commonly 15 in 8th grade? Of course not. As I said, it's likely ONE of many red flags.

We have several posters in this thread that have mentioned either their own child, friend's children, or classmates that would have turned 15 in 8th grade. There are also posters that have talked about holding their child back so their child will/or would have turned 15 in 8th grade. I said it's possible that the shooter was never retained and turned 18 before Christmas and that I have experienced having a few students in my 34 years of teaching do so. You don't believe that which is your right, but claiming any child that is older than their grade level peers is somehow not well adjusted is an insult to caring parents. When the decision is made to retain a child, it is done with parent input. The ones that choose to make that decision are usually involved caring parents that are raising good kids with either maturity or learning problems. I'm not embarrassed about defending students that are older than their grade level peers, but if you feel better claiming victory go for it. I know my experience and don't need you to validate it.
 
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Three boys, the oldest and youngest started at 5, the middle child at 6. Despite being the oldest of our boys when he started Kindergarten, he managed to both scratch and bite his teacher before making a successful escape from the building on day one. Things went a little better after that, but not by much. We were obviously right in holding him back the additional year.
 
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My daughter was 5 when she started and turned 6 in November. I turned 5 at the end of July and started, but was held back because I was too young. Not sure what my parents were thinking.
 
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My daughter was 5 when she started and turned 6 in November. I turned 5 at the end of July and started, but was held back because I was too young. Not sure what my parents were thinking.
Well according to some the fact that you were held back should have been a red flag that you might do something horrible in the future.

Just kidding of course.
 
We've been arguing about the age of the school shooter in another thread. This thread is just to get an idea of how many students start kindergarten at 6 rather than 5. Please share the age your child started school and their birth month (no need for SS numbers or their mother's maiden name ;)).
Mine were all 5, but we really didn’t have any choices, as birthdays were in Oct., Dec. and Feb. One pronounced example was my oldest had 2 very good friends throughout elementary, middle and HS, who’s birthdays were a day apart in June, but also a year apart.
 
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Mine were all 5, but we really didn’t have any choices, as birthdays were in Oct., Dec. and Feb. One pronounced example was my oldest had 2 very good friends throughout elementary, middle and HS, who’s birthdays were a day apart in June, but also a year apart.
The grade level age span is often surprising. Every child is different and there is no right or wrong answer for all children. My argument in the other thread was simply that you can't make assumptions of someone's mental health based their age and grade level.
 
3 boys and 3 girls. I am a certified teacher, but I work at a major U.

Me - I was 4 starting K. I was smallish until jr year. Had hellish time with older kids and kids in my class who were developmentally mature and not from great families.

Son 1 - Turned 6 in summer prior to K. Now a Judge and Major Jag
Son 2 - Turned 6 April of K. Struggled with maturity and shyness. Managing Engineer with Volvo. Career has struggled some
Son 3 - Turned 6 Oct of K. Graduated with high honors from top Mech Engineer and now using people skills in buying out a financial advising business after working around the world as an engineer.

All above were great athletes.

Daughter 1 - Dyslexia - Struggled with school and socially. Turned 6 January of K year. We held her back. Husband teaches at WP
Daughter 2 - Adopted. She was held back for 4th grade. Struggled with school and scored ACT 16 Delayed college. Graduated Magna Cum Laude and in graduate school
Daughter 3 - Adopted. Held back in grade 1. Really struggled socially and in school. Really struggled early college and now gets almost all straight A's.

You can't predict timing of development.
No but you can certainly play the odds.
 
The grade level age span is often surprising. Every child is different and there is no right or wrong answer for all children. My argument in the other thread was simply that you can't make assumptions of someone's mental health based their age and grade level.
Most of the families I’ve known who had the choice, made the choice based on one of two things - maturity at 4-5 and, especially for boys, potential impact on sports. I don’t love the latter criteria, but it’s a thing. Of the two kids I mentioned that were a year apart, I think both sets of parents made the right call.
 
Well according to some the fact that you were held back should have been a red flag that you might do something horrible in the future.

Just kidding of course.

No……it still remains to be seen. Pretty sure I used to wipe boogers on old people, or maybe I just wanted to as a youngster 🤔
 
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3 Boys. 2 of the 3 at age 5. Jan and Sept birthdays. Our first we held back until age 6. May birthday. Month of birth didn’t matter. Him having Down Syndrome was the reason.
Just out of curiosity, did you not have the option to start him at 3? Maybe that is a bigger city thing but my great nephew with special needs was eligible to start at 3.
 
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