Interesting reaction at the least. I am not going to insult you or tell you where to aim your piss, but I'll try to explain who I think "real fans" are and you can feel free to disagree with again.
The "real" fan cares about what's best for the program.
(But also knows not to get too involved with collegiate athletics because it's still 18-23 year old kids that they're supporting........and they won't always be 18-23 years old. #Shelf life.) He will passionately cheer for his team, and he won't tell others sitting around him what they can or cannot do
(Unless they're Nebraska fans......they need help sometimes with the simple things.
) (he can notify security if there is illegal activity however
........like teams beating Iowa at Carver or Kinnick. Illegal. Security get off your arse and do something. You've got weapons, right? Bruise their shins with your nightstick or something, damn it.). He will strive for constant improvement in the program
(Am I a player now?), knowing that sometimes new ideas and different ways of thinking about things are productive
(Unless what we're doing is working....until it doesn't. Which is why the top teams always win. Because what they do always works, apparently.................they should really stop that, signed everyone.). Many times this real fan is a donor to the program he loves
(or broke) - for that he will receive preferential parking passes
(now we're gloating....), tickets closer to the action
(now we're rubbing it in....), and maybe even special access to the coach/team
(and now we're just trying too hard and need to stop......). He does indeed support the team through thick and thin.
(But also knows that sometimes, imbibing too much of a good thing can be an issue, as well)
Sounds to me like according to my definition, you partly or even mostly fit as a real fan. In some ways you don't though - you seem to think the atmosphere is fine as it is when most of us realize it could be better. See last night for an example.