https://www.nytimes.com/2020/07/23/podcasts/nice-white-parents-serial.html
What, in the ever living F.....
I remember when one of the problems with schools is the lack of parent involvement. Too much “nice white parent” involvement is a bad thing according to this garbage.
Sounds really interesting. The audio bit is interesting.
What kind of racist crap is this?
Just finishing this. It's an EXCELLENT podcast series. Maybe my favorite ever. It doesn't oversimplify anything. In fact, its all about all the complications. In the end, the title itself is making the point that the intentions of these affluent white parents is pure, but what they say they want, what they advocate for, and what choices they actually make to benefit their students has often harmed the black/brown students in the public school system. That this white, liberal "kumbaya" vision of diversity, particularly in northern cities that were never mandated to truly integrate, does more harm than good. But there is hope in the end. That we are finally starting to tackle the biggest problem in these schools, which is pretending that we don't all have racial blind spots. That integration is more than just throwing black and white kids together into a school, but learning about how we interact with each other and what unconscious messages we send. That the rallying cry of integration actually harmed parents of minority students, who just wanted equality.I agree - I liked the audio bit.
I'm afraid, though, that the actual podcast is going to just oversimplify a hugely complicated problem and boil it down to white parents being disingenuous when it comes to school.
It's not just race, there's a ton of stuff that goes into school disparities and what makes one successful and another not. It'd be good if people on ALL sides could begin by acknowledging all of these factors, and then work together on how they can fix the parts that are fixable.
- The education of kids' parents matter
- Parents' academic expectations for their kids matter
- Parents' involvement in their kids' education matters
- Family stability matters
- Access to outside resources like tutoring and prep classes matters
- Kids' peer pressure matters
- The teachers matter
- Recognition of academic achievement (as compared to athletic achievement) matters
There are a ton of factors that contribute to school/student success.
My kid's school is VERY academically competitive. It's reflected in how hard it is to climb the class rankings, the number of AP/dual enrollment classes offered, and it's reflected in the peer pressure within her group of friends. It's not about who's dating whom, going to parties, being popular, etc, it's mostly all about what classes they're taking, what grades they're getting, etc. It's not like that everywhere.
In my high school the homecoming king was the quarterback and the queen was the best looking cheerleader. In my kid's school the homecoming king was the class valedictorian, and I believe the queen was also in the top 5. When they announced each at halftime of the football game, they listed off all these academic achievements/honors. Coincidentally, the football team sucks. Probably the best cross country high school team in the country though.
A whole lot of parents show up to all the different events/school presentations - we've all known each other since elementary school and we see each other at science competitions, test days, etc. A lot of what's set the stage for the kids' academic success started in elementary school. A lot of these kids started at this old, historic school building where there is once class for each grade, the cafeteria is also the auditorium and the gym, there's not a lot of computer whiteboards, etc. But what they did have was all of us parents showing up to help with the science fair, filling in to help with classes, participating in fundraising spaghetti nights together, etc, etc.
Parents on the other side of the county never understood that and accused us of giving the kids a "private school" education on the school district's dime. They never got that why our kids were comparatively more successful wasn't about resources - their schools got a LOT more resources/technology, etc, but what our kids got was time, effort, and attention of the parents. But they didn't want to see that, so every cycle they'd try to get our kids' elementary school closed down, and every year a bunch of us would have to go to the school board meeting and take turns speaking about how we continue to receive less and less funding per student compared to these larger school, and how it was us that made the difference, not the technology. And every year they'd keep our school open another year.
A lot of white kids are starting to get lapped too though. Indian/Asian parents have got the game figured out and are willing to be tough on their kids - sometimes to a fault. There have been a few times where we show up to try out for different academic things and the white kids make up maybe 10% of the kids. The rest are Indian and Asian. Then even the white parents get mad and speak out when they get "under-represented" in something they wanted for their kids. What they never got is that these super highly-driven Indian/Asian kids are only involved in academic extra-curriculars, and they spend each summer in test prep camps, rather than recreational/sports camps. That's who the daughter's friends with, and who she's also competing against: kids whose expectations are straight A+'s, nothing less.
It's too bad that too few people actually want to do the "hard work" it would take to understand the causes of school performance differences, and just reduce it down to the reason that's simplest for them to blame on someone else.
TLDR: It's WAY more than just the race of the kids and their parents.
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