This. In my situation, I used to work in an office with people, but over years and years more people went remote until I was one of the few people coming into the office. It was a waste of a commute to sit alone at my computer. Eventually we went full permanent remote.
But the thing that drove me nuts when I was one of the few people in an office is that many people work from home pretty much blend their time. They might disappear for a few hours, then be back on at 7pm for a few hours. Well, when you're actually in an office, that shit is a real pain in the ass. I got real sick of sitting in my office at 6:30 waiting for someone to finish walking their dog so they could get me something I needed before I could leave and start my 40 minute commute. Meanwhile, my family is trying to keep dinner warm for me.
I really hate that. That's not me...whether home or office, there's an end to my day. It's always a bit crazy to me to see people answering emails and 9 or 10 tonight. That's fine if you want to get your work done that way, but I don't like being forced into being engaged with my email all day every day. I was very concerned if I ever went remote I'd lose the excuse that they sent it to me after I left.
So far, I've been pretty much able to hold the line and walk away from my email by 6 or 6:30. Of course, I'm not talking about an unwillingness to work late when a project demands it, or responding to an emergency. Everyone's got my cell phone so they can call me and I'll jump on something. I'm just talking about the normal day to day workload, I don't want to have to be checking my email at 9pm because somebody else was getting their lawn mowed before it rained.
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