"SHE is using the Bible to support her position."
Link? Also, which Bible is she using, and is she saying that her belief conforms to every aspect of it?
A person isn't required to adhere to any of the Bible, but they can, or they can adhere only to the principles they choose. People do this, literally, every day. We shouldn't be questioning it.
Now, if she says, "I believe in _______________________ passage" and then she acts opposite, it would be hypocrisy.
Ok, she belongs to what she describes as an "Apostolic faith", and she likely attends a specific church, that STILL does not require her to adhere to everything the congregation, or the minister, preaches. Catholics don't have to adhere strictly to the Vatican, nor do they. Mormons didn't have to continue with polygamy, and many didn't.
You are trying to pigeon-hole her to a larger group of Christianity. Her special crazy might be a religion of 1. When we start requiring people to have conforming faiths, it defeats the entire purpose of religious freedom. Same goes for objectively determining which religious beliefs a person follows or not.
Which leads to my larger point I've always pushed: This is why this whole area is so dangerous. We CAN'T objectively determine a person's faith, therefore we must, basically, accept anything they claim. And if we accept everything they claim, then they get carte blanche to exempt themselves as they please. That is why I push for doing everything on a completely objective standard, don't allow religious exemptions at all for public accommodation, for public officials, etc.
"Both believe the Bible - the WHOLE Bible - is the inerrant word of God. If she doesn't believe that, she's a hypocrite for belonging to the faith and not adhering to a central tenet. "
Nothing you have posted supports that principle. There is no such requirement to do as you say.
The Bible is the infallible Word of God and the authority for salvation and Christian living. (See II Timothy 3:15-17.)
Now, as a religious person, say, a Christian, you might claim she is hypocritical using your views/beliefs, but you can't necessarily say she is within hers.