I grew up on Tom and Terry Brands. I had a TNT poster on my wall of those two sprinting steps in Carver, went to their camps, and I spent every hour of training time trying to model myself after them. I went to the meets, and watched them manhandle people and I went wild when they would shove people out of bounds or give their opponent a shove after the whistle. They were my heroes.
I had a decent high school wrestling career and had what many would call a successful D3 college career, although I have never really thought of it that way. I wrestled tough and tried to outwork my opponents. I tried to mentally prepare to the point that I KNEW I would win. And I did most of the time, but sometimes I’d get beat. When I did I would beat myself up for weeks or even months. I grew up watching the standard of Gable and of the Brands brothers...the mentality that if you don’t win...that if you aren’t a National Champion you have failed.
As I’ve gotten older, my views on sports have changed some. I watch Iowa wrestling right now and I find myself disinterested and in moments, even turned off. Obviously, some of it is because we aren’t scoring points and we aren’t dominating like we once did. But there is another part of it as well. The truth is, I don’t really agree with the philosophy of Iowa Wrestling any more. Of course, there is a lot that I still very relevant and will never go out of style: Work harder than everyone else, believe in yourself, push yourself harder than you think you can...mental toughness....Those are all great life lessons and great wrestling lessons.
But here’s what isn’t:
1.) The idea that winning is everything, and anything short of that is worthless.
2.) The notion that it is helpful to disrespect your opponent.
I saw both of these things in Iowa wrestlers at the tournament. I saw joylessness in their wrestling. I saw so much seriousness. Worry. And sometimes I saw a lack of respect for opponents in both winning and losing. Sometimes I think to myself, if I were my parents watching the Brands brothers wrestling and disrespecting opponents the way they did in the 90‘s...I wouldn’t know how to justify it. It was just bad sportsmanship. And frankly, I think in its own way, it greatly affects the team today
I listened tonight to this video of Gabe Dean reading a letter that he wrote to himself prior to making it to the finals, and its worth a look. http://www.mlive.com/sports/2016/03/lowells_gabe_dean_reads_letter.html . It was a reminder to me that though we all compete to win, wrestling is about so much more than just about winning. It is about giving your all and enjoying the gift of competing in greatest sport on this earth. It’s about failing and learning about yourself from your failures. It is about perseverance, discipline, and belief in one’s self.
I know that TNT are great coaches. I know they have an enormous wealth of knowledge and I know they are the fiercest of competitors. They are fantastic motivators. I also feel that they lack perspective about the things that are bigger than wrestling. And frankly, I think that lack of perspective a.) doesn’t make the wrestling an better and b.) is not as fun to watch as athletes who compete with Joy instead of Pressure and fear. and c.) misses the boat on what wresting can teach student athletes about life.
Plenty will disagree. Not trying to troll. Just needed to speak up.
I had a decent high school wrestling career and had what many would call a successful D3 college career, although I have never really thought of it that way. I wrestled tough and tried to outwork my opponents. I tried to mentally prepare to the point that I KNEW I would win. And I did most of the time, but sometimes I’d get beat. When I did I would beat myself up for weeks or even months. I grew up watching the standard of Gable and of the Brands brothers...the mentality that if you don’t win...that if you aren’t a National Champion you have failed.
As I’ve gotten older, my views on sports have changed some. I watch Iowa wrestling right now and I find myself disinterested and in moments, even turned off. Obviously, some of it is because we aren’t scoring points and we aren’t dominating like we once did. But there is another part of it as well. The truth is, I don’t really agree with the philosophy of Iowa Wrestling any more. Of course, there is a lot that I still very relevant and will never go out of style: Work harder than everyone else, believe in yourself, push yourself harder than you think you can...mental toughness....Those are all great life lessons and great wrestling lessons.
But here’s what isn’t:
1.) The idea that winning is everything, and anything short of that is worthless.
2.) The notion that it is helpful to disrespect your opponent.
I saw both of these things in Iowa wrestlers at the tournament. I saw joylessness in their wrestling. I saw so much seriousness. Worry. And sometimes I saw a lack of respect for opponents in both winning and losing. Sometimes I think to myself, if I were my parents watching the Brands brothers wrestling and disrespecting opponents the way they did in the 90‘s...I wouldn’t know how to justify it. It was just bad sportsmanship. And frankly, I think in its own way, it greatly affects the team today
I listened tonight to this video of Gabe Dean reading a letter that he wrote to himself prior to making it to the finals, and its worth a look. http://www.mlive.com/sports/2016/03/lowells_gabe_dean_reads_letter.html . It was a reminder to me that though we all compete to win, wrestling is about so much more than just about winning. It is about giving your all and enjoying the gift of competing in greatest sport on this earth. It’s about failing and learning about yourself from your failures. It is about perseverance, discipline, and belief in one’s self.
I know that TNT are great coaches. I know they have an enormous wealth of knowledge and I know they are the fiercest of competitors. They are fantastic motivators. I also feel that they lack perspective about the things that are bigger than wrestling. And frankly, I think that lack of perspective a.) doesn’t make the wrestling an better and b.) is not as fun to watch as athletes who compete with Joy instead of Pressure and fear. and c.) misses the boat on what wresting can teach student athletes about life.
Plenty will disagree. Not trying to troll. Just needed to speak up.