I think Tom is one of the best interviews in the business, tells it like it is. Unfortunately, I don't think it always seems to build up his team. I watched his interview and to me it seems like the interviewer was trying to give Tom the opportunity to rave about his finalists. Asking something like "are you proud of your three finalist?" His response just seemed so different than most coaches who would be able to pull away from the disappointment of the loss and say how proud he was of them and leaders they have been to this team. He did say he was proud of their effort, but to me it was saying he wasn't proud because you lost but you tried. He then went on to talk about how easily Sorenson gave up takedowns without prompting.
It just seems like he is so intense he lets everything out and doesn't know how to praise his team when they come up short. I am sure he was very tough on himself as a competitor and probably wouldn't want anyone to think there was anything positive about taking second place, but I think you lose kids sometimes because they just see the constant disappointment. I do think some kids do feel similar to Tom but I think there may be fewer and fewer kids like that.
It just seems like he is so intense he lets everything out and doesn't know how to praise his team when they come up short. I am sure he was very tough on himself as a competitor and probably wouldn't want anyone to think there was anything positive about taking second place, but I think you lose kids sometimes because they just see the constant disappointment. I do think some kids do feel similar to Tom but I think there may be fewer and fewer kids like that.