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The single best bread for toast or sliced sandwiches is this recipe my wife found for a loaf bread that comes out midway between a French Brioche and a Japanese Yudane/“Hoakkaido Milk Bread”. Somehow it lasts twice or three times as long as other fresh baked breads as it’s easily still in good useable condition 5-6 days later and is the softest, fluffiest bread you can find. It’s THE best bread for toasting and grilled cheeses/melts and perfect for any softer filling sandwiches like egg salad, tuna salad, chicken salad, deviled ham, pimento cheese, pate and watercress, pb&j, liverwurst and onion, tomato sandos/blts, fluffernutters and the various tea sandwiches. And it works better than most for your typical sliced deli meat sandwiches ie bologna, clubs, tlubs/turkey “clubs”, country ham, city ham, city ham & cheese, roast chicken slices, roast turkey slices, bologna, mortadella, and roast beef. Some chunkier sandwiches work like leftover turkey meat chunk/“thanksgiving sando”, meatloaf sando, fried fish of any sort and pot roast sando.
The only thing it doesn’t work well with are sloppier, wetter and ultra high stacked sandwiches that need harder and/or chewier breads like a baguette, Cubano bread, Italian Sub bread, Sicilian sesame loaf, sourdough, pumpernickel, other ryes etc when making Philly Cheesesteaks, Phily Roast Pork’s, Jersey style Italian Submarines, Muffulettas, NYC Bodega Chopped Cheese, Tampa Cubano’s, French Dips, Reuben’s, Jewish Deli Pastramis, Eggplant/Chicken/Meatball Parma, Po Boys, “Pub Subs”, etc…
If anyone wants the recipe I can get it.
As far as bought at a grocery store breads, the only ones I typically buy Dave’s Killer Bread Powerseed, Martin’s Potato Bread or Arnold’s Country Oatmeal bread.