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White woman accidentally impregnated with black man’s sperm loses legal battle

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A white woman who sued after she was accidentally impregnated with the sperm of an African American man will be forced to refile the lawsuit after an Illinois judge tossed out her claim against the sperm bank.

Jennifer Cramblett filed suit against Midwest Sperm Bank in 2014 because she was artificially inseminated with sperm from the wrong donor and gave birth to a mixed-race daughter.

The sperm bank apologized and refunded part of the cost to Cramblett and her partner Amanda Zinkon. But Cramblett’s suit alleged that the mistake caused her and her family stress, pain, suffering and medical expenses. And, the suit said, in Cramblett’s predominantly white community, she feared that her daughter, Payton, now 3, would grow up feeling like an “outcast.”

But DuPage County judge Ronald Sutter threw out the lawsuit Thursday, agreeing with attorneys for the sperm bank who argued that it lacked legal merit, according to the Chicago Tribune.

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Attorneys for the sperm bank had argued that “wrongful birth” suits typically apply to cases where the child is born with a birth defect that doctors should have warned parents about; in this case, the child was healthy. Cramblett had also sought damages for a “breach of warranty.” The judge rejected both claims but said that Cramblett could refile the suit as a “negligence claim,” the Tribune reported.

At the heart of the lawsuit was Cramblett’s claim that she was unprepared to raise an African American child and that her community and her “unconsciously insensitive” family members might not be accepting of a child of a different race.

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“Getting a young daughter’s hair cut is not particularly stressful for most mothers, but to Jennifer it is not a routine matter, because Payton has hair typical of an African American girl,” the lawsuit said. “To get a decent cut, Jennifer must travel to a black neighborhood, far from where she lives, where she is obviously different in appearance, and not overtly welcome.”

According to the suit, the couple chose sperm from donor No. 380, a white man; instead, they were given sperm from donor No. 330, a black man. They blame a paper records system that allegedly caused an employee to misread the numbers.

“Jennifer’s stress and anxiety intensify when she envisions Payton entering an all-white school,” the lawsuit says. “Ironically, Jennifer and Amanda moved to Uniontown from racially diverse Akron, because the schools were better and to be closer to family.”

“Jennifer is well aware of the child psychology research and literature correlating intolerance and racism with reduced academic and psychological well-being of bi-racial children.”

She sought at least $50,000 in damages.

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So you get to pick your traits when going to the bank? I'd like to see the form you fill out.
 
The sperm bank apologized and refunded part of the cost to Cramblett and her partner Amanda Zinkon.

Part of the cost?

And, the suit said, in Cramblett’s predominantly white community, she feared that her daughter, Payton, now 3, would grow up feeling like an “outcast.”

If you are concerned about her feeling like an outcast, you should reconsider filing a lawsuit over her conception.

“To get a decent cut, Jennifer must travel to a black neighborhood, far from where she lives, where she is obviously different in appearance, and not overtly welcome.”

From what I have seen in the movies, black barbershops look awesome.
 
I get the disappointment. They thought they were getting one thing and got another. However, this isn't buying a shirt from Amazon. If I order a blue shirt and get a red one, I can send it back and exchange. You can't exchange a person. Having a healthy kid of any color means she got 99.99% of what she was going for.

She's worried about how the girl will feel.....what's the message mom is sending about skin color? "Your skin is so dark, we feel entitled to damages." Ouch.
 
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My biggest concern with this whole thing is that her lawyers didn't go after negligence. That's an open-shut case, probably wouldn't even see the inside of a courtroom because they'd settle. And for far more than $50K.

At the end of the day they ordered white, the firm accepted, then delivered incorrectly. As someone said, this isn't a shirt or car that can be returned, this is worse.
 
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so she is rejected by the black community? such horrible insensitive racist bags. just because she has a little "white privilege" in her.
 
Sounds like this woman got a bad lawyer. She should be able to sue their pants off. That's a hell of a mistake that's going to affect that family for the rest of their lives .
 
I get the disappointment. They thought they were getting one thing and got another. However, this isn't buying a shirt from Amazon. If I order a blue shirt and get a red one, I can send it back and exchange. You can't exchange a person. Having a healthy kid of any color means she got 99.99% of what she was going for.

She's worried about how the girl will feel.....what's the message mom is sending about skin color? "Your skin is so dark, we feel entitled to damages." Ouch.
Yea, someday this child will be old enough to find all this information on the internet. Now that's gonna be an awkward conversation.
 
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They should have had an abortion and sold the fetus' organs sfor some money. That would have made the libbies happy.
 
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This is the America of the future. A lesbian couple
raising a half black/half white daughter. Payton the
daughter will attend a Jewish synagogue as her
religion and be able to date the rabbi's son. Her
college choice is Notre Dame where she will play
basketball. Payton wants a career in communications and
hopes to be a TV reality star like Kim Kardashian

Bottom Line: God help us
 
The sperm bank did this couple a favor.

When the kid asks "Where's Daddy", they can just say his black a$$ never stuck around.
 
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Sounds like this woman got a bad lawyer. She should be able to sue their pants off. That's a hell of a mistake that's going to affect that family for the rest of their lives .

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This woman does not come off well, but she was asking for a reasonable amount as far as I'm concerned. She does have a very valid reason to be upset. If my son would have come out half black I would have been mad too, and its not because I'm racist!
 
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This woman does not come off well, but she was asking for a reasonable amount as far as I'm concerned. She does have a very valid reason to be upset. If my son would have come out half black I would have been mad too, and its not because I'm racist!


Yes it is
 
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Yes it is
U caught me on that one, if my son from 2 white parents comes out half black then that makes me racist if I get mad... Idiot.... Maybe there is another reason I would be mad but I will let u try to figure it out
 
U caught me on that one, if my son from 2 white parents comes out half black then that makes me racist if I get mad... Idiot.... Maybe there is another reason I would be mad but I will let u try to figure it out


It's ok, I forgive you. Racism is a learned trait ;)
 
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This woman does not come off well, but she was asking for a reasonable amount as far as I'm concerned. She does have a very valid reason to be upset. If my son would have come out half black I would have been mad too, and its not because I'm racist!

If my son came out half black I would be upset because both my wife and I are white, so that would indicate that said child isn't really mine.

But if I was looking having a kid who was fertilized in vitro, or one that I was adopting, I wouldn't be that concerned about the race and love them anyways. And I certainly wouldn't sue claiming that the whole world's gonna reject her and it's hard to get her a decent hair cut. Ultimately a kid is a kid no matter if they are the kid you want or not and what they need most in the world is adult parents who love them unconditionally for who they are. They don't control the circumstances of their conception.

And for the record I just don't buy it. She apparently has a good enough relationship with her neighbors and family to care about what they think. . . so said neighbors and family are obviously progressive enough to accept her lesbian relationship, but they arn't progressive enough to accept a half black/half white child??

I call bull. This woman's a racist, she wanted a pure white baby through in vitro and when she didn't get her pure white baby despite the fact that the company refunded her she sued them and tried to play it off as "I'm not mad because I'm a racist. . . no no no it's just that everyone else in my family and community is a racist and this child will be treated as outcast" It's bull. Any community/family that has accepted her lesbian relationship is most likely not on the whole going to freak out and treat as outcast a half black/half white child.
 
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U caught me on that one, if my son from 2 white parents comes out half black then that makes me racist if I get mad... Idiot.... Maybe there is another reason I would be mad but I will let u try to figure it out
Maybe she got pregnant from watching 3D porn.
 
I have my doubts she's racist. I think the lawyer and her were making these stories up to get the money. However, the stories were bad, poorly thought out, and came off wrong.
 
She obviously doesn't care about her child's potential future athletic career.
 
I have my doubts she's racist. I think the lawyer and her were making these stories up to get the money. However, the stories were bad, poorly thought out, and came off wrong.

She didn't get superficially what she wanted out of a child. . . but the company refunded that money.

Now she's specifically asking for damages. There is no way you collect damages in a case like this without defaming your child.

That would be like if a doctor knew our baby had down syndrome and didn't tell us and then us rushing off to try and collect damages. The only way you can do that is by claiming that you basically want nothing to do with the kid and would have killed it in the womb had you known the truth.

Children need unconditional love. . . the only thing any suit of this kind could send to that poor child is "I would love you more if you where white."
 
This dolt is obviously not emotionally mature enough to have a kid. I hope child services rescue this poor child before her idiot "parents" f up her life.
 
I don't blame her. Rejecting your child because her hair is harder to cut is something any loving parent can relate to.
I appreciate the attempt at humor, but I think you are missing the point.

They paid for a specific product and did not get that specific product.

Forget all the sideshow issues like haircuts and the usual legal piling on for stress and whatnot. They didn't get what they paid for.

You order a puppy from the pet shop and they send you a kitten. It isn't about the kitten, it's about a failed contractual obligation. You may bond with that kitten and love that kitten and be glad to have that kitten. But it's still a broken contact.
 
I appreciate the attempt at humor, but I think you are missing the point.

They paid for a specific product and did not get that specific product.

Forget all the sideshow issues like haircuts and the usual legal piling on for stress and whatnot. They didn't get what they paid for.

You order a puppy from the pet shop and they send you a kitten. It isn't about the kitten, it's about a failed contractual obligation. You may bond with that kitten and love that kitten and be glad to have that kitten. But it's still a broken contact.

I'd expect that you would view children as a commodity.

Besides even if you look at it like that then the cost of doing it was re-funded. So then all should be fair in the case of "I didn't get the right "product" but I'll take it anyways." The only other option is to return the "product". Since post natal abortions are still illegal in this country such a "product" can't be returned legally.

But in my view children arn't a commodity. So in my view, you love the children you end up with unconditionally and be truely happy that you have the child in the first place.
 
I appreciate the attempt at humor, but I think you are missing the point.

They paid for a specific product and did not get that specific product.

Forget all the sideshow issues like haircuts and the usual legal piling on for stress and whatnot. They didn't get what they paid for.

You order a puppy from the pet shop and they send you a kitten. It isn't about the kitten, it's about a failed contractual obligation. You may bond with that kitten and love that kitten and be glad to have that kitten. But it's still a broken contact.

They were refunded for the service and their willingness to go after a 'broken contract' is stronger than their value of their child's future perception of them. They also seem like the type of people that would use the child to fight for a few more dollars in a divorce.

You are correct legally, but F them and their case.
 
The bottom line is there is a price to pay for messing up. The company messed up and they should give some compensation for that mistake. it has nothing to do with whether the mother will love her child.

Last time I got my haircut they mess it up and the manager decided to give me a free haircut to make amends for their mistake. point being is the concept of paying for a mistake it is not uncommon and when it's dealing with a life it is even more amplified. this is something that should never happen similar to during surgery on the wrong body part. when the surgeon messes up hospital and the surgeon have to pay for their mistake even if the patient is not significantly harmed or dead. that is just the way the world works

Having said that, this mother sound like a d****** and I really hope she is not racist and will be able to take care of her child without holding anything against her due to her color
 
The bottom line is there is a price to pay for messing up. The company messed up and they should give some compensation for that mistake. it has nothing to do with whether the mother will love her child.

Last time I got my haircut they mess it up and the manager decided to give me a free haircut to make amends for their mistake. point being is the concept of paying for a mistake it is not uncommon and when it's dealing with a life it is even more amplified. this is something that should never happen similar to during surgery on the wrong body part. when the surgeon messes up hospital and the surgeon have to pay for their mistake even if the patient is not significantly harmed or dead. that is just the way the world works

Having said that, this mother sound like a d****** and I really hope she is not racist and will be able to take care of her child without holding anything against her due to her color

They company refunded the cost so they basically got a "free" in-vitro child.

The manager gave you a free haircut to try and retain your business, not because you can prove monetary damages from your bad haircut.

I think any mistake made in surgery could show some sort of harm where damages would result. Even if the surgeon makes an incision in the wrong place and then recognizes the mistake and sews it back up immediately, there is pain and suffering there.

Her whole claim for court damages is ridiculous.

First of all it presumes we live in a world where mixed raced children are somehow social outcasts. They may have been at one time but they likely arn't anymore.

Secondly even if that where the cast those damages occur to the child herself and not to the mother. It's the child who suffers not her mom. But the child can't sue the company for being the wrong type of person, she is who she is. . . So mom sues acting like she herself is harmed and deserves cash.

The refund sufficed for any "damages" this mother received.

I agree with you on the mother, she sounds terrible and I'm sorry I think she's racist. Because I just can't see a community and a family that is on the whole totally accepting of her lesbian relationship but will see a half black child and treat her as outcast. So I call bull just off of that.

The person most making this little girl feel like an outcast is her own mother.
 
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If I was going the in vitro route, I'd probably prefer a mixed race baby.

With the exception of Swag, mixed race people are usually good looking.
 
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I look at it this way - if this kid is a total screw up we can blame the biases of society AND her parents at the same time! That's a win-win, isn't it?
 
They were refunded for the service and their willingness to go after a 'broken contract' is stronger than their value of their child's future perception of them. They also seem like the type of people that would use the child to fight for a few more dollars in a divorce.

You are correct legally, but F them and their case.
You got saddled with a lifetime commitment different from what you signed up for.

If this was a simple matter of disappointment at having to return a DVD when Amazon sent you the wrong one then a refund would be reasonable. But this is a child and a life-altering event, not a DVD.

Look, I agree that the people sound douchey on the basis of the examples of hardship they are complaining about, but that's more an example of our legal system making you show specific harm - when the harm in this case isn't that simple.

Most "products" don't carry this sort of existential weight. This one does. It's not "I'm sorry you don't like your eggs, sir, let me get you a different serving." It's more like "I'm sorry we put you on the wrong flight and you didn't get to visit with your mother before she died - here's a refund."
 
Let me suggest a different way to look at this. Suppose we are talking about a regular husband and wife who are having trouble conceiving. They take sperm from the husband, impregnate the woman and - lo, 9 months later it isn't the hubby's sperm after all.

Again, it isn't about the baby. The baby is blameless. But it isn't what they had a reason to expect and it isn't a trivial error that a mere refund will suffice to make OK.
 
They company refunded the cost so they basically got a "free" in-vitro child.

First of all it presumes we live in a world where mixed raced children are somehow social outcasts. They may have been at one time but they likely arn't anymore.

Secondly even if that where the cast those damages occur to the child herself and not to the mother. It's the child who suffers not her mom. But the child can't sue the company for being the wrong type of person, she is who she is. . . So mom sues acting like she herself is harmed and deserves cash.

The refund sufficed for any "damages" this mother received.

I agree with you on the mother, she sounds terrible and I'm sorry I think she's racist. Because I just can't see a community and a family that is on the whole totally accepting of her lesbian relationship but will see a half black child and treat her as outcast. So I call bull just off of that.

The person most making this little girl feel like an outcast is her own mother.

Im not sure I understand how the child would be the person who suffers. As long as the mother is able to care for the kid then the kid will be fine a could go their entire life without even knowing what really happened. However, the mother has to go through the ordeal and the potential discrimination that may go along with having a mixed race child.

You say that the mother asking for compensation presumes we live in a world where mixed raced children are social outcasts. You can not deny that there is lots of publicity about discrimination of black people. Parts of our society do discriminate against black people and thus may discriminate against the mother of a mixed race child. (I am not saying I agree with this, just that it exists). I bet swag has experienced discrimination at some point in his life. The whole black lives matters is based on the idea that discrimination is happening every day. So yes for some people in some communities it is very possible that having a mixed race child could bring hardship to the mother and potentially the child.

As far as the refund for the in-vitro being enough compensation, imagine you and your wife had a baby and during the hospital stay your baby got switched with another baby in the nursery. Now lets say your biological baby got in a car accident on their first birthday and died, thus leading to them finding out that the babies were switched in the hospital. If the hospital offered to refund the money for the hospital stay would you just accept the whole situation and that be the end of it? your current baby is happy and healthy so you could say that it was a fair "trade". So by your reasoning all should be fair even though "I didn't get the right "product" but I'll take it anyways." and be truely happy that you have the child in the first place.
 
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