One of my employees informed me they are transgender.
We were discussing normal work and I generally keep the mood light especially if an employee is doing good work. I touch on a few key points, but I try to be positive regardless of topic.
When they told me, I was completely caught off guard and I know I paused for a few seconds before I told them, "I have their back and will do anything needed. The rest of the leadership team will provide 100% support and no one will judge or say anything negative".
We continue chatting discussing their new name and their timeline.
I could tell it took all their strength to tell me. It hit me how difficult it must be to live in their shoes. They mentioned feeling suicidal urges as early as 5 years old.
Has anyone helped someone through a similar situation? Also, what can I say to help? I've started conversations with HR members for guidance, but HORT seems to know a bit about everything.
We were discussing normal work and I generally keep the mood light especially if an employee is doing good work. I touch on a few key points, but I try to be positive regardless of topic.
When they told me, I was completely caught off guard and I know I paused for a few seconds before I told them, "I have their back and will do anything needed. The rest of the leadership team will provide 100% support and no one will judge or say anything negative".
We continue chatting discussing their new name and their timeline.
I could tell it took all their strength to tell me. It hit me how difficult it must be to live in their shoes. They mentioned feeling suicidal urges as early as 5 years old.
Has anyone helped someone through a similar situation? Also, what can I say to help? I've started conversations with HR members for guidance, but HORT seems to know a bit about everything.