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Former Nebraska player accuses ex-coach of grooming her into sexual relationship

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A former member of the Nebraska women's basketball team is suing the University of Nebraska after she was dismissed from the team amid allegations of an inappropriate relationship with an assistant coach.
In a lawsuit filed in U.S. District Court on Sunday, Ashley Scoggin accused former associate head coach Chuck Love of using his position and influence with head coach Amy Williams to groom her into a sexual relationship.
The lawsuit also alleges Williams and Husker Athletic Director Trev Alberts failed to ensure the coaching staff maintained appropriate boundaries with student-athletes and of violating her rights.
Scoggin was removed from the team and Love was suspended from his coaching duties in February 2022 after other members of the team discovered them together in a hotel room on a road trip.

According to the lawsuit, Scoggin said Love began grooming her months earlier, in the summer of 2021, when she secured an internship within Husker Athletics and was invited to work in his office, spending one-on-one time with him.



Love began contacting Scoggin late at night on social media, asking the college student to meet him, and sometimes Williams’ husband, for drinks, the lawsuit alleges. Scoggin said she initially declined the invitations, but later accepted, meeting Love in the parking lot of a Costco.
At Love’s request, Scoggin said she brought alcohol with her to a subsequent meeting in the parking lot, according to the lawsuit, where he kissed her and asked if she had previously ever had an intimate relationship with a coach.

“Love had already offered and given her mentoring, individual practice sessions, academic coaching, and the implied promise of support of her career,” the complaint states. “It was now undeniable that Love wanted a sexual relationship.”

Scoggin said in the lawsuit she felt “confused and trapped” by Love and feared retaliation from Williams, which led her to keep the interaction to herself. Love would share information about discussions among the coaching staff with her, she said.

“Love, acting in the course and scope of his employment and under color of state law, created the perception for (Scoggin) that he could ‘make her or break her’ in terms of her participation on the women’s basketball team and her future,” the lawsuit states.


The relationship eventually became sexual, according to the lawsuit, and the two would meet “in different locations” in university athletics’ facilities, or in his hotel room during road games: “Love expected her to become available whenever he texted or messaged her.”
The complaint indicates Scoggin began to suspect others were aware of the inappropriate relationship but did not know how to remove herself from the situation before the Huskers traveled to Penn State for a Feb. 17, 2022 game.

There, according to the complaint, a member of the practice squad represented himself as Love to an employee of the hotel in order to obtain a copy of the room key. Two members of the Husker squad later confronted Scoggin in Love’s room, recording the interaction.


“Love instructed (Scoggin) to deny anything improper, and he told her that he would talk to Williams,” the lawsuit states.
Williams called a team meeting before the game where she allowed other players to “interrogate” both Scoggin and Love about their relationship for hours, but both denied anything improper, according to the complaint.

“(Scoggin) felt panicked, trapped and profoundly ashamed,” the lawsuit states. “She could not, in that setting with Love inches away and watching her, admit the truth of what was happening.”
Love was suspended with pay before the game, while Scoggin was removed from the team. The lawsuit states another unnamed player told Scoggin that Love would lose his job if she said anything, while Love encouraged her to claim she was mentally ill.

On Feb. 20, 2022, after Nebraska's win over Minnesota, Williams declined comment when asked directly multiple questions about the situation.

“All of those things are questions that, at this time, I can’t really answer,” Williams said. “We’re going to keep our focus on the team that we have moving forward.”
Scoggin later had a meeting with her parents, Williams, and Alberts, in which she said the university employees “were motivated to avoid scandal and embarrassment” to the women’s basketball team instead of protecting a student-athlete.

The lawsuit states Alberts did not acknowledge it was improper for coaches to pursue sexual relationships with athletes, and there was no discussion about whether or not Love had acted inappropriately leading up to Scoggin being in his hotel room.

Alberts later told Scoggin and her parents that Williams would decide how the situation would be handled, in which the punishment was affirmed.

Scoggin said in the lawsuit no investigation was ordered until she started a Title IX complaint on March 11, 2022. The Title IX investigation was later dropped after Love resigned in May.
As a result of her being removed from the team, Scoggin lost her housing, access to game film, and other athletic amenities, and finished the academic semester online.
She eventually transferred to the University of Nevada, Las Vegas.
Scoggin is seeking punitive damages, attorney's fees, and other compensation for her physical and mental pain and suffering at a jury trial, as well as "other and further relief as this court deems equitable and proper."

 
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Nothin like a little love in a Costco parking lot.
If you agree to meet up with a guy in a Costco parking lot to drink and make out - in my own personal opinion - you're not going there because you were groomed to. That would be like the easiest grooming job ever - like 16yo high school boy-level grooming. "Cool people do it - you want to be cool, don't you?!" - level grooming. Nah, I think you're going there because you wanted to drink and make out.
 
If you agree to meet up with a guy in a Costco parking lot to drink and make out - in my own personal opinion - you're not going there because you were groomed to. That would be like the easiest grooming job ever - like 16yo high school boy-level grooming. "Cool people do it - you want to be cool, don't you?!" - level grooming. Nah, I think you're going there because you wanted to drink and make out.
I can't disagree with you. This is a weird situation.
 
I used to tutor for the Iowa women's athletic department. Sadly, I also dated an athlete I tutored, who was on the women's swimming team. The stories those ladies had used to make my skin crawl. I would go home and shower twice to get rid of the stench. Let's just say no school is immune from the sex stuff, and the sex stuff gets as deviant as your imagination wants it to be. Trust me on that one.
 
I used to tutor for the Iowa women's athletic department. Sadly, I also dated an athlete I tutored, who was on the women's swimming team. The stories those ladies had used to make my skin crawl. I would go home and shower twice to get rid of the stench. Let's just say no school is immune from the sex stuff, and the sex stuff gets as deviant as your imagination wants it to be. Trust me on that one.

Go on…
 
If you agree to meet up with a guy in a Costco parking lot to drink and make out - in my own personal opinion - you're not going there because you were groomed to. That would be like the easiest grooming job ever - like 16yo high school boy-level grooming. "Cool people do it - you want to be cool, don't you?!" - level grooming. Nah, I think you're going there because you wanted to drink and make out.
You may want to brush up on your sexual harassment training.

Just the offer from someone in authority (coach) to someone he has authority over (player) is a violation.

Nebraska will be paying much money - justifiably - to this young lady.
 
I used to tutor for the Iowa women's athletic department. Sadly, I also dated an athlete I tutored, who was on the women's swimming team. The stories those ladies had used to make my skin crawl. I would go home and shower twice to get rid of the stench. Let's just say no school is immune from the sex stuff, and the sex stuff gets as deviant as your imagination wants it to be. Trust me on that one.
Were you ever in New Orleans for a bachelor party?
 
You may want to brush up on your sexual harassment training.

Just the offer from someone in authority (coach) to someone he has authority over (player) is a violation.

Nebraska will be paying much money - justifiably - to this young lady.
I get that it's harassment because of the coach/student relationship. I just don't think it's "grooming" - a word overused so often as to lose all meaning. It's at least not very *good* grooming.
 
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I used to tutor for the Iowa women's athletic department. Sadly, I also dated an athlete I tutored, who was on the women's swimming team. The stories those ladies had used to make my skin crawl. I would go home and shower twice to get rid of the stench. Let's just say no school is immune from the sex stuff, and the sex stuff gets as deviant as your imagination wants it to be. Trust me on that one.


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Dude was working with her on her game, working with her in the office, invited her out with him and the head coach (so she’s like damn the coach knows what he’s doing), he’s giving her inside information on others on the team, says he can’t impact her playing time/career/standing on the team… seems like there could have easily been some grooming and he definitely had inappropriate relationship that, according to this article, they didn’t seem overly willing to admit when it was uncovered… instead they were looking to cover their asses. Dude was in his mid-30s and had a long relationship with coach Williams so I’m sure she felt trapped. I’d be shocked if she was the only one he did this to or had tried to.
 
I get that it's harassment because of the coach/student relationship. I just don't think it's "grooming" - a word overused so often as to lose all meaning. It's at least not very *good* grooming.

Agreed.

It's a no no for him no matter what though. Not even sure what the point of the grooming part is.
 
You may want to brush up on your sexual harassment training.

Just the offer from someone in authority (coach) to someone he has authority over (player) is a violation.

Nebraska will be paying much money - justifiably - to this young lady.
Bingo. It is never ok for a person in a position of authority to do something like this. The pressure to comply is implicit in the relationship.
 
Will this silence from Amy Williams cause her to lose her job. Either stepping down or being fired?
 
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Were you ever in New Orleans for a bachelor party?

I was down in New Orleans over the weekend for a friend’s bachelor party (nolook, if you’re reading this post, you were insulting me for attending the bachelor’s father’s tailgate at the OSU game last fall). There were about 15 guys there, most of them single, so pretty much everybody was looking to get laid. I’m happily married, and have never cheated on my wife, so all I wanted to do was party my ass off.

I got there Friday night at about 10. By 10:30 I was out on Bourbon St with a hurricane in hand. A few minutes later I met the group out at a place called Razoo’s and caught up a bit with 5 shots in 5 minutes – I was way behind. By 1AM I was loaded and had a serious itch for some powder. I wasn’t able to get some in time back home, but at the same time I was pretty leery of trying to make something happen in New Orleans. But who knows, I tell myself – might as well keep my eyes and ears open.

Around 4AM a middle-aged man advertises the fact that he’s selling – exactly the kind of situation I know to be a rip-off waiting to happen. I really wanted it bad though, so I took a chance. After each of us was satisfied that the other wasn’t a cop, we found a secluded spot for the transaction. He took out a magnificent rock of an 8ball and shoved a pebble up my nose. Pretty good stuff – I’m in luck! What happened next was some magnificent kind of slight of hand, because he switched the ball of good stuff with barely a gram of total crap while I was counting out $160, making sure to keep my eyes on his hands. Rats – rolled AGAIN. When will I ever learn?

Good news though – some Mississippi fraternity boys came through for us the next night. They were staying in some rooms next to ours at the Royal Sonesta – we had 2nd floor balcony right on Bourbon. They hooked us up with some really outstanding stuff for a fair price. JACKPOT! We hung around watching the parade until 11 or so, getting really blasted, and then headed out to the bars.

Third stop or so we end up at a place with a nice dance floor. Much to my friends’ delight, the ratio in there is decent – girls in general were kinda sparse all weekend, and all the hotties seemed to have men on their arms. Didn’t matter to me as I was only looking for a good time and a lot of eye candy – neither of which were in short supply. For my friends though it was a major issue, and standards were dropping rapidly, in some cases dramatically. LOL.

Anyway, there were a few bachelorette parties going on in there, one of which was pretty small – only 7 girls. Six of them were freakin outstanding – hot hot hot hot hot hot hot. The problem is, they seem totally into a girls’ night, and are giving guys the Heisman left and right. Even when I was single, I had a gift of coming off as totally harmless and innocent, so I decide to give talking them up a shot.

It worked. Pretty quickly, I was all chatty-chatty with all of them, dancing with all of them, making them laugh. It was great – I loved the attention. I especially loved that all the other guys, including my friends, kept trying, kept trying, and kept getting shot down.

So I keep drinking hard, and keep hitting the bathroom. After a while, the hottest among the group starts getting a little touchy with me and asks if I like to party. “That’s a silly question,” I tell her, and explain the details of my situation. She wants to leave right away.

At this point I have no intention whatsoever of cheating on my wife, but am just loving all the attention I’m getting from this ridiculously, truly ridiculously hot girl, so I think to myself, “What’s the harm in hanging out with her a while?” I figure that her friends probably wouldn’t let her go anyway, but if they did, it would be a tremendous ego boost if this girl tries to get on me. And did I mention how much of a great time I’m having? These girls aren’t just hot – they’re a lot of fun too. And this one is the best among them.

Much to my shock, the bachelorette and her friends let the hottest one go with me, saying right in front of me, “Now normally there’s no way we’d split up our group, but we can tell you’re a really nice guy, so be nice and be sure to have her back soon.”

Not a problem, I tell them, but just as we’re walking out the door, I hear a “Hey _____ - get back here!” I’ll spare you the long and boring details of all the drama, but basically one of the bridesmaids had disappeared, and no one knew where she was. The others weren’t going to let us go now, they decided, which I really didn’t mind. Safer that way, and I was having a great time there anyway.

After a while, all the girls, but especially the bachelorette, started getting really freaked out about their missing friend, and they really had no idea what to do. Making phone calls and deliberating about it forever, they considered doing things that would only have made matters worse. Eventually I stepped in to take control of the situation, and put together a plan to find the missing girl without splitting up their group. I was pretty concerned about her too, and thought about how many girls were going to be raped that evening in NO. Pretty sobering thought. Luckily, she wasn’t one of them, as we found her a few blocks away about a half hour later, and she was fine.

When we found her, the b-ette was pissed – for a while, I thought they were going to come to blows. Eventually she’s just like “* this – I’m getting out of here – you coming, Chicago?” (Chicago is me). The hottest one pulls the b-ette aside and tells her about the coke. Totally sober at this point (her friend was missing for hours), her eyes freakin lit up – “OOOOOO – let’s go!!” and me, the b-ette, and the hottest head back to their hotel room.

Up to that point, I hadn’t really noticed the b-ette much. Her face was kind of goofy, and she had all kinds of stupid costuming on over her clothes. When she took that stuff off, it turned out that she has a 10 body too. Not relatively speaking, not beergoggles, no BS – solid 99th percentile both of them body wise, and the hottest is just freakin gorgeous head to toe, with probably the best legs I’ve ever seen.

We got back to their hotel room and dug in – these girls can really party! Much to my delight, the b-ette’s behavior started to change dramatically. She started flirting with me, touching me, and giving me some of the hardest “* me” eyes I’ve ever seen. The hottest was following suit, and I was just totally loving it, playing it cool the entire time, because I had no intention of trying anything. After a while, they started playing this weird game, each seemingly trying to get rid of the other under the guise of normality. A lot of “Are you sure you don’t just want to go to sleep?” or “nyc_hawk, are you hungry – we could go get something to eat – oh ____, you want to go too? I thought you weren’t hungry?” – stuff like that – it went on for hours.

Fearing a serious malfunction of my willpower (it’s almost 7AM and I’m still really blasted), I suggest that we go swimming back at my hotel. I figure that way is a lot safer than sticking around there, plus I’d get them both essentially naked in wet lacey underwear. That would have been a very nice end to the best night out I’ve had in ages. After a lot of the same back and forth games, they agree on my idea.

We’re riding the elevator down, and the hottest rests herself on my shoulders, starts breathing really lustily on my neck, and asks the b-ette, “____, are you sure you want to go?”

The b-ette then leans over my other side, runs her hand over my chest, and says very sweetly, and sorta moaningly, “Umm-hmmm, definitely.” What happened next is really hard to describe, but it resulted in a complete implosion of my willpower, an instant erection, and a U-turn back upstairs. Making an already way too long story very, very short:
 
Had a threesome. Full sex and oral with both of them, often at the same time. I thought it would be really awkward, but it wasn’t. It was freakin beautiful. Took over 4 hours, came three times, and could have gone four. I was more aroused than I’ve ever been in my entire life - and I was blasted out of my mind. Am I that easy? In a word – no.
Both of them were 21yr old college seniors. Hottest = current SEC cheerleader, and former Miss Teen _______ in her home state. B-ette = 10x better in bed, and a pair of absolutely spectacular, perky, natural D breasts to go along with her perfect tight little body.
100% of this story is true. No BS or fabrication whatsoever. Three morals to it:
1. No matter how much you’re tempted, never buy drugs from a – wait, screw it. I’ll say it, because I’ve never rolled by a white guy - never buy drugs from a black guy on the street. I’ve been rolled each and every time I’ve tried. It’s like 7 times now – you’d think I’d learn my lesson, huh? I’m sure there are plenty of white scammers out there too, but I’ve never run into one. They've all come through for me. If generalizing based on these experiences makes me a racist than so be it. I don't think it does.
2. Say what you will about fraternity guys, but they pretty much always have the best drugs. Those Mississippi guys had a freakin medicine chest of top quality stuff.
3. Never, ever, ever ever ever underestimate the amazing powers of the magic white powder. Sure, I’m good-looking, and I still have some game in me (I’m 30), but come on – this one was pure luck. It never, ever, ever ever ever would have happened without the white stuff around to help those girls (and me) abandon decent judgment and do crazy stuff we otherwise wouldn’t. I feel terrible about it in retrospect, and would definitely go back and change things if I could. But I can’t, and if a threesome with two incredibly hot college girls when I’m 30 is my only case of marital infidelity, I can live with that.
My advice to all you single guys out there – if you find a girl who likes to party (and you do too of course), stay engaged in the situation. Stay committed even if things look bleak. Things have a way of working themselves out when coke is in the equation – it buys you a lot of time. Look at me – I never even remotely sniffed anything like this when I was searching for it practically 24x7 and much better looking, I wasn’t even trying to score this weekend, and I ended up in a freakin Penthouse Letter from 7-10:30 on a Sunday morning.
I'd provide a pic in a heartbeat but I promised not to reveal anything about them that could reveal their identities to people they know. HROT gets a fair amount of traffic from SEC posters - you never know.
 
There haven’t been female dorms at Iowa in over a half a century. They went coed in 1970. But, please continue on with your fiction.
I was confused also but maybe there is a dorm specific to female athletes? Otherwise, when I lived in currrier in the mid 90s our floor was 1/2 male and 1/2 female. Good mems.
 
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