I'm battling colon cancer right now. Just finished my 8th chemo out of a 12 treatment regimen. This disease sucks ass. Far too many good people have been taken from this earth way too early because of this diseases and the lives it's impacted..... just unbelievable. I'm lucky. I'm on my feet and despite an insane year with my health (had a liver transplant last December, diagnosed with cancer unrelated to any of my liver problems in June, colon surgery in June, and now chemo) and way more people have it worse. I'm taking my family to Pasadena this year and I've been able to keep living through all of this.
My thoughts and prayers are with the op. You're very right about hugging your loved ones.