I doubt this describes 60% of young men but I do know that unmotivated, lazy, underemployed, and undereducated men aren't exactly offering a whole lot that's going to get a women to want to engage in a long term relationship with that person. Also, men who still live at home having their mom make them meals and do their laundry aren't exactly advertising themselves very well either. Women want to be mother to their kids, not their boyfriend/husband.
You’re right. That doesn’t describe most young men. There are a lot of young women who fit your description.
Women these days don’t exactly have a lot to offer young men either and plays into a portion of that 60%.