I did chuckle a bit at some of the posts out here -- it was pretty clear that one or two of the smaller guys were going to have to bail, but almost everybody here has been very careful not to say it out loud, lest any of the kids start to feel less than welcome. I suspect these guys or their parents read these boards, and hopefully they'll see that everybody understands their situation, is sorry to see them go, and wishes them the best of luck.
I agree with your premise primarily Art, you make a solid point and a good post, but not 100% on board. If Iowa lost every kid who wasn't happy with his scholarship money as a wrestler, we'd have some damn small teams, made up mostly of 2x State placers, probably all from Iowa (this board would be pretty quiet about now! Ha!).
None of these kids "has to bail". The terms are set forth and you accept or decline based on your personal situation. I would hope the spots on the Iowa Wrestling team are earned, on the mat, not by the size of your scholarship, so with that in mind you come in and compete and let the chips fall where they may (and perhaps and more likely presumably your scholarship allotment rises, or falls, with your performance).
I would imagine the current crop of Bettendorf kids, the former group of Iowa City West kids, and kids from all over the State of Iowa for years and years that had very successful High School careers that want to wrestle at Iowa, think they have a chance to make the team where they presumably have dreamed about doing so since they were young lads. They know the deal when they step into that wrestling room. Not gonna happen for all of them on a 40 man roster. That's called life. Some of those parents are surely sacrificing from a financial standpoint, even on an in-state tuition basis, where some could be on larger rides at other schools or a lesser Division. That's the kind of stuff parents do for their "angels" (Ha!).
These kids and their parents have decisions to make. It's that simple. If Little Johnny's "dream" is to wrestle for Iowa, you find a way to make it happen if it truly is that important to your Son and your Family. Whether or not you make the lineup is entirely up to you, your effort and your talent.
I'm certainly not going to sit here on my keyboard and tell the Mejia's and the Renteria's how to make their family life choices, it's tough for many, not just these folks. They aren't the virgins in this scenario, and they won't be the last. So God bless em' and hope it all works out for them as they see fit moving forward.