Huh?That is like saying you wouldn’t be mad at the guy that knew your wife was married and hit on her nonstop for months until she finally gave in and cheated. In the end, your wife, just like the transfers, is the one that ended up being disloyal. But, assuming she/they didn’t initiate the contact and didn’t show immediate interest, you know damn well you would want to break his neck. Hell, most men would want to no matter what…