I get what you are saying. I probably do complain about the complainers to the point where it gets annoying. Now, if I may make two points in my defense.
I've read comments (and heard some things attributed to parents of players...things I won't repeat) in interviews and you know, yes, players should look at the criticism as bullshit. But after awhile it isn't so easy. Remember Woody's shushing the crowd?
And. Imagine I'm standing atop a landfill, and I pull up a piece of something smelly and disgusting and say, "This is smelly and disgusting!" Alright, who's fault is that? Mine for digging around in a landfill. So, is HR a landfill?