Our team is also AA. We made the decision when we started the team to bat everyone and everyone plays. No cuts or tryouts but I also wouldn't call us a travel team. It's a relief to establish such an approach before the season and just play. We do play to win and could be more competitive if a few kids played less but I feel good about our decision.
We are similar. We have 12 on our roster of U10 and everyone (who is there bc someone is seemingly always missing) hits (still play three outs, so we don't bat around like coach pitch, but everyone is in the order). Everyone also gets to play, if you are out the first inning you will be in the remainder of the game and unless you get hurt you will not be sitting out more than one inning per game. Funny thing is it seems that the coaches kids (mine included) are typically the ones that we sit the most, they also happen to be our better players.
We are half rec and then half USSSA games and, as I agreed to before, rec games can be awful. I am honestly frightened for some of the children safety on these other teams bc they have 1, maybe 2, decent players and it appears that none of the other kids want to be there and so far it seems that none of the coaches for the other teams want to be there either. I find myself coaching up kids on the other team during games more than the other teams coaches (who just seem to be sitting around). Hey I get they are volunteering their time (I do for Baseball, basketball, FB, soccer...someone has to do it) but like anything else in life if you are going to do it, even if volunteering, it doesn't take that much more effort to do a great job then it does to do a lazy job...for god sakes you are already there, now just be there mentally for the kids as well.
Anyway, we typically pitch our less developed/confident kids in rec league and our more developed kids in our USSSA games. It has worked pretty well so far and we are building our rotation as everyone seems to be improving. Next year we are planning on U10 games for USSA but moving up an age group in Rec and playing older kids bc, as stated before, it isn't fun to show up and smash the opposing team 15-0 all via walks with little to no chance to swing the bat.
Then you run into a rec team that has one pretty good player and the opposing coach decides it is ok to throw him 80+ pitches over 3 innings (I actually think one kid was close to hitting 100 pitches...it was sad and not fair to the kid pitching or the other kids on the team). Get a clicker and keep a count, when they get to 40 pitch yank them if they are struggling or let them get another batter or two but at 50 pitches they need to not be pitching anymore for 3-4 days.
Rant over.