#andrewlongIn talking with some friends last night I think I’ve found something I can cling to:
If Cael had a need he wouldn’t think twice about bringing in Ferrari. That’s who we are trying to compete with.
#andrewlongIn talking with some friends last night I think I’ve found something I can cling to:
If Cael had a need he wouldn’t think twice about bringing in Ferrari. That’s who we are trying to compete with.
he has already had multiple chances!Let's hold judgement on AJ too at this point. He was at the meet with 2 high character Hawks. Obviously he's doing the right things now. He didn't just show up on his own, the staff, team, and school are in.
He F*cked up, he appears to be trying to right the ship.
Let's give him a chance.
Accusing people of being on a moral high horse usually works a lot better when they’re being hypocritical and have done things similar to or worse than the person they’re looking down upon.The moral high horse is strong in this thread.
Does it though?Accusing people of being on a moral high horse usually works a lot better when they’re being hypocritical and have done things similar to or worse than the person they’re looking down upon.
Maybe I’m naïve, but I’m guessing well over 90% of this board would not fall into that category.
Only in a court of law does it mean anything. Also don’t you technically have to go to trial to be acquitted?Does innocent until proven guilty mean nothing anymore? He was acquitted of sexual battery charges. None of us know what really happened, but it isn’t fair to just assume someone is guilty because they have been accused of something.
Maybe the term should be charged dropped. Yeah it’s just unfortunate if the accusations are false. I’m not saying they are in this case (obviously I don’t know). It is definitely not fair to just be like “Oh he’s a douche, he must have done it.”Only in a court of law does it mean anything. Also don’t you technically have to go to trial to be acquitted?
Actually, it's 83%.Accusing people of being on a moral high horse usually works a lot better when they’re being hypocritical and have done things similar to or worse than the person they’re looking down upon.
Maybe I’m naïve, but I’m guessing well over 90% of this board would not fall into that category.
Which makes me question the whole thing to begin with. If that truly happened to you, why wouldn’t you pursue justice? Why would you just “let it go?”Does innocent until proven guilty mean nothing anymore? He was acquitted of sexual battery charges. None of us know what really happened, but it isn’t fair to just assume someone is guilty because they have been accused of something.
Which makes me question the whole thing to begin with. If that truly happened to you, why wouldn’t you pursue justice? Why would you just “let it go?”
"Why wouldn't you want to go through the humiliating process of defense lawyers picking apart your personal life and sexual history while making you relive the experience over and over again in your head for over a year all for a very low chance at conviction because it usually comes down to he said-she said?"Which makes me question the whole thing to begin with. If that truly happened to you, why wouldn’t you pursue justice? Why would you just “let it go?”
Maybe. I guess I’m not a fan of dragging someone’s name through the mud if something isn’t accurate. Especially something of this nature. If it’s true, don’t point fingers and back off.Yeesh.
Just go with +1 or like it, and leave it at that. That was a fair post while your point here is at best tone deaf.
Maybe. I guess I’m not a fan of dragging someone’s name through the mud if something isn’t accurate. Especially something of this nature. If it’s true, don’t point fingers and back off.
Totally agree!SA aside, I think there was enough there to be wary because he has had some WTF moments. The car wreck. Never record anything on your phone that you aren't willing to share over the internet etc. Hopefully, he has learned some important lessons. Being really good at something does not make you bulletproof. It may earn him a second chance, and in some cases third chances but it will eventually catch up to him if he keeps on keeping on.
If Tom and the admin are ok with it, then so am I because I know **** all about the case beyond what's been printed.
Yep. 100% this."Why wouldn't you want to go through the humiliating process of defense lawyers picking apart your personal life and sexual history while making you relive the experience over and over again in your head for over a year all for a very low chance at conviction because it usually comes down to he said-she said?"
We don't know what happened and likely never will. Our justice system is designed to let guilty people go to make sure as few innocent people are convicted as possible, and imo opinion that's the lesser of two evils, so fine by me.
But there's a reason there are so few charges and convictions for sexual assault. The system is ill-equipped to handle that specific crime due to its nature. There's very rarely any independent evidence to prove guilt or innocence. That doesn't mean women are just making it up.
Ferrari is here so the main thing we can hope is that 1) he was innocent after all or 2) He wasn't, but he's changed as a person and will be a good person moving forward.
“The young woman who is at the center of this matter has endured in the last year vicious attacks on multiple forms of social media, continuing trauma, blame, harassment, ostracism and indirect threats to her career,” Thomas’ motion stated.Which makes me question the whole thing to begin with. If that truly happened to you, why wouldn’t you pursue justice? Why would you just “let it go?”
It was.opportunity to prove to everyone that she was right, and get the justice she deserves. And as Chief mentioned, the staff and admin are okay with it. They know far more about it than any of us.“The young woman who is at the center of this matter has endured in the last year vicious attacks on multiple forms of social media, continuing trauma, blame, harassment, ostracism and indirect threats to her career,” Thomas’ motion stated.
“She has made the very difficult decision after consultation with her family that her further involvement is much less important than her health, a career that she loves and the ugliness and hatred that she encounters and suffers each time this matter progresses into the next step.”
Sexual battery charge dropped against former Oklahoma State wrestler A.J. Ferrari
A sexual battery charge against former Oklahoma State wrestler A.J. Ferrari was dropped on Friday in Payne County District Court.www.oklahoman.com
It was.opportunity to prove to everyone that she was right, and get the justice she deserves. And as Chief mentioned, the staff and admin are okay with it. They know far more about it than any of us.
Lol, thanksDoubling down is a bold move.
Regardless, your last two sentences are less cringy and far more lucid.
LMaO. You are still here? Not getting enough attention in the PSU board? Spending your own time stirring shit on another teams board by taking shots at the character of people in that program is a great look. Is the desire to be a drama queen that strong or does that laser sharp character barometer in you just not work when looking in the mirror?And Desanto wanted to change.
This threads wild. Forgive me if I’m wrong here but weren’t the charges dropped or not pursued? Idk. I’m not In the mind of guilting someone when not. He may be a bad cookie may not be. But until he’s guilty of sexual assault I say come on board.
The Ferraris very much could turn the program completely around with the shit in the cupboard. That’s what it’s all about. Sometimes you gotta flirt with fire in order to win again. If we ain’t raping murdering or stealing then wtf we bitching about
I did some dumb shit when I was 19/20. I would have hated to never had a second chance because I was young and dumb
The actions of our past should never define our future. It’s a matter of change that should be judged.
Just my opinion of course
No it means that he is doing what's needed to earn the respect of his teammates. He's also following the rules set forth by the University and TNT.He’s sitting with two high character hawks so it appears he is really trying hard to behave? Okay.
I've been consistent since the rumors started. You're calling him a pos so surely you've got ample personal experience dealing with AJ to make such a character assessment?Here comes a defender now. Funny how they pop up out of nowhere suddenly.
I've been consistent since the rumors started. You're calling him a pos so surely you've got ample personal experience dealing with AJ to make such a character assessment?
Like I've said before you can save it. I've been consistent aswell.I've been consistent since the rumors started. You're calling him a pos so surely you've got ample personal experience dealing with AJ to make such a character assessment?
Wouod you let him date your daughter?Does innocent until proven guilty mean nothing anymore? He was acquitted of sexual battery charges. None of us know what really happened, but it isn’t fair to just assume someone is guilty because they have been accused of something.
Depends on issues of past. Some things stick and dont deserve chances. His situation feels like dayton racer situation. I hope not for the sake of girls on campusThe actions of our past should never define our future. It’s a matter of change that should be judged.
Just my opinion of course
YikesMany of you would have fit right in at the Salem Witch trials.
Yup. That's what happens to people that society judges are assholes or bad people, they get hung.Many of you would have fit right in at the Salem Witch trials.
Really? It's an analogy. LolYup. That's what happens to people that society judges are assholes or bad people, they get hung.
It's a terrible one. You live in 2023. Are you trying to tell me that you alone in society have not judged people based on the information you get thru public means?Really? It's an analogy. Lol
You're smarter than that.
Stop it.
Comparing him to Casey Anthony and OJ is crazy. They went to a televised trial, you could see the evidence and both arguments, and it was obvious they had the right jury to get off. If this was the case with AJ, you opinion of his guilt would be more credible.A convenient ideology. Maybe you're different, but most people aren't affording that same grace to, say, OJ Simpson or Casey Anthony. Another example, would you have let Michael Jackson babysit your kids? And on and on. Innocent until proven guilty applies only in a courtroom, throughout history.