You might want to reread the timeline of events before accusing anyone of jumping the other person.
There are many things in this world that get immediately killed off due to fear. I'm a gun owner, I see people afraid of what I consider a tool all the time, because as you say, they are ignorant. This issue isn't going away and pacifying it isn't going to help. I don't think the female athletes that were pissed the swimmer took a spot were afraid. Again I will say, I was a male who did not have access to certain sports in high school I would have enjoyed. No one bent the rules for us, we just found another activity.