So you've got a square peg. That sounds freaky!
Divorce underway....
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Wait, did someone get SP's login info?
You seem to be ignoring the 70k in a safe question...seriously, expand on that...
Forgive me, but pic of round hole?
Sorry Clarinda, it was just such low hanging fruit. I'm sure you aren't in a joking mood.
She gets paid a lot of cash...She she's a hoarder.....therefore she hoarded cash. Which was great.....till now. We should get shared custody, and I can she she makes good money, so I won't owe more than $500/month. I've offered to help finish a few things with the house, make some car payments...hard to be mean to someone who has been in your life for over twenty years.
I came to be a smart ass and am leaving quite sad. This is f'ed
What was her job that she made cash at?
Get a good lawyer. You seem to be trusting everything will be amicable but I've seen seemingly "good" splits go very badly when it came court time. Cover your ace...
Get a good lawyer. You seem to be trusting everything will be amicable but I've seen seemingly "good" splits go very badly when it came court time. Cover your ace...
Remember Clarinda you have a child that's going to be affected from this divorce as well. Try to put away your sociopathic tendencies and remember it's going to be just as hard on him as it is on you or your wife. You'll need to be there to listen when he needs someone to talk to. Hope you dedicate as much time to him during this than you do hunting, fishing, and working out.
that may be one of the best things I've ever seen on the internet
OP, did you have the combo to the safe, or did your wife only have access? And why didn't you plan ahead and photograph that money, or document it another way? The divorce has been in the pipeline for awhile.
Fortunately for Clarinda, hunting and fishing are things that a father and child can do together. I spent a lot of time in the field and on the water with my dad.
That's all well and fine if Clarinda actually takes his son and it wasn't just a cover to get some strange.
I take him frequently...and my daughter...douche. I work out at noon so I don't take time away from the kids.. you ****ing dickless fatass
I need three things in a partner..1. Admiration for the good I do 2. support for hobbies and interests 3. To be desired or wanted
She apparently needed one thing. DON'T BE A F'IN CHEATER!!!!!!!! You made this bed yourself with your past actions and now you have to lay in it. Maybe next time you'll keep little Clarinda in your pants. I still have sympathy for your kids, but I don't have any for you. I hope she takes your ass to the cleaners.
Steven actually makes a good point here. Unless it's drug money, why wouldn't you document that?
This is HROT. You're asking the top 1% of the 1%ers. $70k is chump change around here...
Probably double that, i have a couch downstairs and the main level and those things tend to suck up loose cash.
That would make me wonder how long she's been planning the divorce. She's probably been lawyered up for months. This is a serious question and not a shot at Clarinda's character. Does adultery have a "statue of limitations" on which you can declare that reason for the divorce? In regards to adultery is that a reason in which a judge may favor towards one party or the other during the divorce?
Shouldn't be. As you know, many states including Iowa are "no fault" states, so the reason shouldn't matter. Even if it did, if he sought out the affair due to her "failure to provide companionship", it's a push in the eyes of a fair court.
You are very clear on your feelings toward cheating and cheaters. What is your stance on sexless marriages? It's a problem occurring in far more marriages than infidelity. I don't know what happened in the marriage between OP and soon-to-be-Mrs OP, and infidelity is certainly a killer, but it sounds like he was pretty miserable for a long time. He went that direction and it ultimately may have sealed it between him and her.
How many gals were you banging ClarindaA? Was the Ex grinding on someone else?
I don't judge.
I don't judge.
Yep. At the very least you could hold it over her head, now you have no bargaining chips.
I attempt to document it until June....but she had moved it. We used it on vacations....down payments on cars...etc.
Clarinda probably signed tax returns that didnt report that cash as income. If he documents that he knew of the cash, it would be like admitting to tax fraud.
Just thinking out loud.
