The egocentrism and inhuman competitiveness that makes a few people genuinely great athletes, often makes them less than great human beings.
Here's an excerpt from a fascinating profile of John Smith that I read years ago:
"I make a commitment that no other wrestler does. There are probably a few wrestlers out there who think they make a commitment. But I really make a commitment.
Anything that gets in my way, I pretty much eliminate. I don’t have too many close friends. I don’t have too many close relationships. I just can’t afford to have them to go where I want to go, to do what I want to do. I really focus on myself. I really figure out and find a way how I can win, how I can beat everybody. I’ll do whatever it takes.
Put it this way: I’ve never had a girlfriend I’ve been good to, you know. Because I’d blow them off when it was time to go to work. I’d say, ‘Don’t come around. I don’t want to (see you).’ It’s been hard on some of those girls. They don’t understand it. But it’s like, ‘Hey, I’m in love with this more than I am with you.’
I’ve probably hurt a lot of people because of this. But you gotta do what you gotta do if this is what you want.”
John Smith in the Los Angeles Times. July 19, 1992
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www.latimes.com