You mean there is a chance?Iowa losing this kid is akin to your buddy pulling your drunk arse out of a cab that You are taking home with the ugliest girl on the planet with syphilis
You mean there is a chance?Iowa losing this kid is akin to your buddy pulling your drunk arse out of a cab that You are taking home with the ugliest girl on the planet with syphilis
I think the staff has known this for a while. I see 1 more leaving after spring semester. Then we will not be over scholly limit.
...please God, let this post be a joke.I think the staff has known this for a while. I see 1 more leaving after spring semester. Then we will not be over scholly limit.
All jokes aside ... I do hope this kid gets his head on straight. He obviously has some internal issues that have led him to this point. I'm not saying he shouldn't be held accountable to act like an adult ... But somewhere along the line adults have failed this kid. He is going to face a difficult life as an adult ... I do hope he gets on track.
Unfortunately in his announcement he said he wanted to "Continue his Growth" at another university! That sounds baaaaddddd!I think that means the staff told him he’s too fat.
And if this kid was Your Son You wouldn't be having a come to Jesus talk with him long ago and probably getting him a good shrink? Comn man he isn't 13 He is what 19? He deserves to be mocked unless He is legitimately diagnosed with a mental condition.Nice call Rustys Dad. I hope he gets things figured out as well. Anyone mocking the kid in should be ashamed of themselves. This thread is an overall embarrassment and should be deleted.
Testify, the kid can barely put a sentence together but got a free ride college education , Some people have to work really hard post HS or join the military even with good grades because we aren't 350 lbs . Most people are grateful for opportunities given , not blaming other people or wasting other peoples money by de committing 12 times.I don't feel bad for the kid. Yes he lived a hard life but his athletic abilities got him help 99% of people who were born into his situation would have gotten and he hasn't done anything with it. 300+ pounds has very few advantages in this world off the football field and Mr. Harris is going to realize what got him all that attention 18 months ago is going to hinder him for the rest of his life. I do wish the kid could have at least gotten into the structure of the U of I program but at this point I don't know that he had what it would have took to learn the lessons.
Really? An 18/19 year-old kid "deserves to be mocked?" Do you know him? Do you know his situation? Do you know his family environment? It is easy to stand on the outside and judge ... But I am sure you've lived the perfect life ...He deserves to be mocked unless He is legitimately diagnosed with a mental condition.
You know who really should be mocked every teacher that let this kid pass because He can play football.Really? An 18/19 year-old kid "deserves to be mocked?" Do you know him? Do you know his situation? Do you know his family environment? It is easy to stand on the outside and judge ... But I am sure you've lived the perfect life ...![]()
Agree. All I am saying is we don't know his background or the environment he was raised in. He obviously has some internal struggles that have developed over the course of his short life. Football aside, I hope he gets on track and has a good life.You know who really should be mocked every teacher that let this kid pass because He can play football.
Yea I lived the perfect life I spent 10 years serving right out of HS and then raised 2 kids as a single parent , I have no empathy for people who are given a silver spoon and dont appreciate or deserve it. Then blame it all on other people.You know who really should be mocked every teacher that let this kid pass because He can play football.
He may not deserve to be mocked, but he sure as hell doesn't deserve any sympothy either. Regardless of his upbringing, he's had the golden ticket laid out in front of him, and its on him to put in the effort or not.......Really? An 18/19 year-old kid "deserves to be mocked?" Do you know him? Do you know his situation? Do you know his family environment? It is easy to stand on the outside and judge ... But I am sure you've lived the perfect life ...![]()
I hear you. At some point he does need to accept ownership of his decisions.He may not deserve to be mocked, but he sure as hell doesn't deserve any sympothy either. Regardless of his upbringing, he's had the golden ticket laid out in front of him, and its on him to put in the effort or not.......
Frankly, I don't know anything about the kids home life, and it seems to be just as big a leap to say he's had it so bad. I don't really know, and I imagine you don't either. No matter what the past, at some point its time for him to step up and accept accountability. Unfortunately our jails and shelters are overflowing with people who bemoan everything they weren't given in life, instead of stepping up and making something of themselves. Life gives very few of us anything, its up to us to earn what we want, and this young person has a great opportunity laid out at his feet, and seems to have little interest in putting in any effort. I wish him good luck in his journey.It's hard to act like an adult when you haven't had adults in your life to properly guide you.
He has some in his life right now and he's not listening to them he's turning his back on them he wants to do what he wants unfortunately for him it's not going to work out well when you won't listen to adultsIt's hard to act like an adult when you haven't had adults in your life to properly guide you.
He was surrounded by coaches, counselors, and tutors at IU doing exactly that. He was also surrounded by his peers and teammates who were all putting in the hard work and being positive examples for him. Didn't have to worry about finding housing, or putting food on the table.It's hard to act like an adult when you haven't had adults in your life to properly guide you.
Do you realize 18/19 kids are adults in the eyes of the law ? They can leave home and not tell anyone where they're going. How long do you think they should have their belly's rubbed and bottoms padded ?Really? An 18/19 year-old kid "deserves to be mocked?" Do you know him? Do you know his situation? Do you know his family environment? It is easy to stand on the outside and judge ... But I am sure you've lived the perfect life ...![]()
Got it, every young man that was raised in a home with only a mother, wouldn't know how to be a father, so they should never have kids.It's hard to act like an adult when you haven't had adults in your life to properly guide you.
I assume you're saying his parents are dirtbags. If so, you realize you can find role models and mentors that aren't your parents.....right?It's hard to act like an adult when you haven't had adults in your life to properly guide you.
This is 2018, in america.....is it even possible to fail anymore?You know who really should be mocked every teacher that let this kid pass because He can play football.
So does it make you feel better to judge others just because someone may not act like you do ... or had the same experiences as you? You don't know how this kid was raised or what he was taught. If you lack the foundation as a kid and as a young adult ... of course he may be confused or not focused, etc. Must be nice being so perfect ...Do you realize 18/19 kids are adults in the eyes of the law ? They can leave home and not tell anyone where they're going. How long do you think they should have their belly's rubbed and bottoms padded ?
Do you realize 18/19 kids are adults in the eyes of the law ? They can leave home and not tell anyone where they're going. How long do you think they should have their belly's rubbed and bottoms padded ?
Juan announced today that he's transferring to Iowa Western.
All I said was that it is hard. I didn’t say impossible. You guys are really intense about a guy you’ve never met.Got it, every young man that was raised in a home with only a mother, wouldn't know how to be a father, so they should never have kids.
Kid could be 24 19 but may have a 13 yr old mindset & sounds like that may never change.And if this kid was Your Son You wouldn't be having a come to Jesus talk with him long ago and probably getting him a good shrink? Comn man he isn't 13 He is what 19? He deserves to be mocked unless He is legitimately diagnosed with a mental condition.
Kinda like "no child left behind"You know who really should be mocked every teacher that let this kid pass because He can play football.
You do realize that all neuroscience studies point out the brain is not "adult" until the age of 25. This is not an excuse for this kid as he desperately needs a wakeup call.Do you realize 18/19 kids are adults in the eyes of the law ? They can leave home and not tell anyone where they're going. How long do you think they should have their belly's rubbed and bottoms padded ?