I appreciate your apology,
@cmhawks99. Thank you.
I was more caustic in my critique than was appropriate. I recently found out that a Black girl whose happiness is very important to me was being mistreated by one of her white teachers in school because that teacher just assumed she just didn't care about doing well academically. Black girls and women have to deal with disrespectful garbage like this every day of their life. It bothers me tremendously.
I don't think you had any malicious intent. I do think it's healthy for all us - myself included - to consider why we ask the questions or make the statements we do. However, it was wrong for me to turn it into an attack of you. I apologize for that.
I concur….I do have bias. And I could have approached you with more care. I generally do. I have been away from here for sometime and I only dropped in honestly because I like the WBB forum and I AM irritated by our football teams average season and I decided I’d jack with the continual naysayers while here. Ironically because I know how hard we all struggle. And fans have become quite boorish.
You got caught up in my pettiness & again I’m sorry, for that. I shouldn’t do it at all, but you didn’t deserve it.
Interestingly, enough because of my appreciation for the struggle we all have, but especially women and other ethnicities. I am generally over the top (sometimes embarrassingly so ) in trying to be kind and appreciative of black people. I wish I wouldn’t. It comes from a good place but it irks me.
As a youngster in the 80s the movie Mississippi Burning had a profound effect on me. I hate abuse of all kinds, but that kind bothers me a great deal.
However as I’ve aged and because I fancy myself fair (that’s an every day, crucify the flesh & pick up your Cross burden, right? ) I can sometimes get haughty when I know my intent. I also have gotten weary of the over use of racism & the continual parsing of rhetoric & intent.
However I try to remind myself that life hasnt been fair, for minorities in many instances and I need to be bigger than that. After all even though I’ve struggled, I’m still not a woman & I'm also not black
That didn’t happen here. My point remains, but I could have done better.
Now to anyone else ready to swoop in and call me out about my attitude toward the people constantly complaining about a damn sporting event. It is indeed useless and wasteful for me to antagonize you.
But as my most favorite actor of all time said in one of my most favorite movies “The Equalizer” I’ve made a special exception for you.
Whining and crying about a coach who has done nothing but win a shit ton of football games is one of the most wasteful, out of place & ridiculous things we do as human beings. And your not going to like the next coach any better. It’s who you are 🤷♂️
Sorry for this soliloquy and I’m also exceptionally Sorry to find out about the young lady you referenced. People are stupid.
I actually struggle with some internal things myself and sometimes motivation is an intensely personal thing. I get the struggle to be “on” everyday.