I know plenty of good people who died playing 'you're not the boss of me' during the pandemic to be wise enough to understand both context and perspective matters. You're just as desperate to enact the same mantra they died of because you survived the gauntlet. Yours is the perspective that results in common sense being absent during after action cost/benefit analysis. Were you harmed or inconvenienced to protect others? Your line of when an inconvenience is harm appears pretty Karen level on this.
I'd like to recommend a movie for you.