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The Right to Die In a Dignified Manner

Why isn't your god yourself as well? So you've vanquished your "self"? Why isn't it your self that led you to the bible and keeps you attached to it?

Because I believe in a higher authority besides myself.

It's much easier being atheist/agnostic and doing whatever you want. :)
 
Because I believe in a higher authority besides myself.

It's much easier being atheist/agnostic and doing whatever you want. :)

That's the level of complexity you're operating at here? People are completely morally adrift -- no systems of moral values -- without believing in a theistic God? That's what you've come to understand of the human conditions after how many decades on earth... that's how things work?
 
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That's the level of complexity you're operating at here? People are completely morally adrift -- no systems of moral values -- without believing in a theistic God? That's what you've come to understand of the human conditions after how many decades on earth... that's how things work?

Atheists/agnostics become your own gods. You make it all up as you go along. Your god is you and that's an easier way to live.

Read Frederick Nietszche and Jean Paul Sartre.
 
Atheists/agnostics become your own gods. You make it all up as you go along. Your god is you and that's an easier way to live.

Read Frederick Nietszche and Jean Paul Sartre.
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This woman from The Netherlands?


I’m not fond of it either, but I hold a similar view to one of the doctors from said article:

"I've treated patients that I knew were going to commit suicide," she says. "I knew. They told me, I felt it, and I thought, 'I can't help you.' So to have euthanasia as an alternative makes me very grateful we have a law. The ones I know will commit suicide are terminal in my opinion. And I don't want to abandon my patients who are not able to go on with their lives. That makes me willing to perform euthanasia."

Sorry but I can't share your view that if we think they will do it anyway we should just help them.

It sends the message to others that suicide an acceptable way out of their difficulties.
 
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I’ve got something to say about baby with the bath water…but I know better than to argue with a true believer.

The problem is it starts with terminally I'll people then it just starts expanding to people who are mentally ill or disabled. Eventually it becomes an expectation that you off yourself rather than be a "burden". When we start pressuring people to off themselves because it might cost us time and money to care for them we have lost all of our humanity.

It took very little time at all to go from just terminally I'll people to depressed people.
 
Sorry but I can't share your view that if we think they will do it anyway we should just help them.

It sends the message to others that suicide an acceptable way out of their difficulties.
That’s way oversimplifying it. The point is that at a certain point, I believe someone can be terminal without a physical illness. and I believe you arrive at that conclusion over a period of time, while trying various treatments. And also having more than just one doctors opinion. No one asks to be born, and yet we should force them to live in agony?
 
Yeah. Those are rough. I know a 70 year old lady very well who has cerebral palsy. She's not physically suffering and I wouldn't recommend anyone put her to sleep.

That being said, couldn't a patient with those terminal illnesses stop all life extending treatments to pass away quicker?

I've known 20+ people with dementia and they live for years with it by getting vaccines, colonoscopies, blood pressure meds, etc., etc.

If they stopped those life extending treatments, they'd die quicker, I assume, no?
Die quicker? Maybe. Depends on the process how quick that would be. Almost assuredly would be miserable. Dementia, heart failure, cirrhosis, certain cancers, neurologic conditions could take years.

Why you want those people to suffer because of some belief from a sky fairy is beyond me.
 
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Die quicker? Maybe. Depends on the process how quick that would be. Almost assuredly would be miserable. Dementia, heart failure, cirrhosis, certain cancers, neurologic conditions could take years.

Why you want those people to suffer because of some belief from a sky fairy is beyond me.

I don't want people to suffer.

My point is if people stopped life extending treatment, they wouldn't linger for additional years. Plus, they could take pain meds.

If you read the article by Dr. Ezekiel Emanuel (an atheist, BTW) he goes into detail:

 
My point is that many of the people that die badly are continuing routine care that they could just stop and pass away naturally without euthanasia.

I see lots of older adults 85+ with dementia that only get there because they're getting vaccinated, colonoscopies, etc.
Agreed. As long as the people allowed to follow through on it are actually verifiably terminal. By a panel of healthcare professionals. I cannot countenance irs use in those that simply don't see a point in carrying on with their life. Such as in depressed states etc.
 
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Die quicker? Maybe. Depends on the process how quick that would be. Almost assuredly would be miserable. Dementia, heart failure, cirrhosis, certain cancers, neurologic conditions could take years.

Why you want those people to suffer because of some belief from a sky fairy is beyond me.
Anyone that has seen death occur as often as people in certain medical fields have, I'm surprised you don't believe in an after life.
 
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I don't want people to suffer.

My point is if people stopped life extending treatment, they wouldn't linger for additional years. Plus, they could take pain meds.

If you read the article by Dr. Ezekiel Emanuel (an atheist, BTW) he goes into detail:

They absolutely would linger depending on the process. Guess what? I've seen that too. People just stop taking their heart meds, or liver meds, etc. It's not a great way to go.

And please stop citing the same guy. If all you have is the opinion of a single person, it's not a strong supporting argument.
 
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And please stop citing the same guy. If all you have is the opinion of a single person, it's not a strong supporting argument.

No problem.

There are tons of other doctors that oppose euthanasia/assisted suicide.

"According to results of a CMA member survey presented at the meeting, many doctors remain opposed to assisting in a patient’s suicide. Only 29% of those surveyed said they would consider providing medical aid in dying if requested by a patient, 63% would refuse outright and 8% were undecided."

 
I'm sure you have seen people, as they move through the process of death, that they seem to be acknowledging something that is beyond our current reality.
Lol. That's it? I've seen people have hallucinations for all kinds of reasons. So in your view, a god makes them suffer through a painful terminal illness, but as a pittance they give them a fun little dream before ultimately dying? .

Personally, I don't find that good evidence of a sky fairy.
 
No problem.

There are tons of other doctors that oppose euthanasia/assisted suicide.

"According to results of a CMA member survey presented at the meeting, many doctors remain opposed to assisting in a patient’s suicide. Only 29% of those surveyed said they would consider providing medical aid in dying if requested by a patient, 63% would refuse outright and 8% were undecided."

I'd be really interested in actually seeing the survey and the breakdown in specialty, demographics, etc. Unfortunately the actual study isn't linked anywhere I can find.

Either way, it's ok if some physicians oppose it. Some refuse to perform abortions, vasectomies, etc based on their beliefs (typically religious in origin). Which is fine.
 
I initially supported it but I changed my mind when they decided it was ok to euthanize a young woman who was physically perfectly healthy but had depression. And it's only gotten worse since than. It is slowly creating a utilitarian culture around life which I reject entirely.

So I reject the idea entirely. Everywhere it's been tried it's been opened up far too much.
I'm for but 2 doctors need to sign off to avoid it being misused
 
As easy as that is to say, it's terrible when it happens. My buddy's dad had metastatic kidney cancer. Went to his spine in his neck so they radiated the tumor. That made his throat scar closed and he had difficulty eating. He was in pain constantly but still at home. When they discussed putting his feeding tube in that's when he decided to take his own life. He went down to the newly remodeled spare bedroom they had and shot himself with a .357. Surprisingly his wife didn't hear the gunshot. The cop who came said that was actually really common because of how much noise is in the city. After it happened my friend said the following:

It sucks he didn't let me say goodbye, but I can get over that. I understand why he did it. He wanted to go on his own terms. I'm really pissed about what he did to Mom. She had to find him that way. She will never unsee that.
Yeah, I wouldn’t leave a mess like that.

I think I’ve told this story here before:

Carbon monoxide is an amazingly peaceful way to go. You just feel real, real sleepy - then out.

I remember in high school when I had my rusty, beater Datsun 510. Driving home from school was just over two miles, so the trip was quick. The muffler on the car had rusted (those earlier Datsuns were notorious rust buckets) and during the winter I'm driving home from school with the windows up. By the time I got home I felt exhausted (literally and unwittingly!), and just chalked it up to my terrible sleep habits and I'd have a nap.
One day coming home I'd practically fallen asleep on the short drive. Walking up the stairs to my room I noticed my reflection in the mirror on the landing and my cheeks were red. A scene from Stephen King's Christine popped in my head where he described a carbon monoxide victim with ruddy cheeks and it clicked I wasn't exhausted, I was poisoned.
Took care of the muffler after that.

If you have to go by your own hand, listening to tunes in the car seems like the best way I could arrange.
 
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No problem.

There are tons of other doctors that oppose euthanasia/assisted suicide.

"According to results of a CMA member survey presented at the meeting, many doctors remain opposed to assisting in a patient’s suicide. Only 29% of those surveyed said they would consider providing medical aid in dying if requested by a patient, 63% would refuse outright and 8% were undecided."

I totally believe in physician assisted suicide. That being said, I'm not sure I'm well trained for it nor would feel comfortable assisting a patient. I would probably refuse based on the simple poll results you presented.

I think palliative care/hospice trained folks are probably best. They deal with it on a daily basis and know "when it's time". I would prefer to be the doctor caring for whatever illness is going to take them. Oncologist for pancreatic cancer, neurologist for ALS, etc. They know how these diseases have progressed to a point when there is no hope and when would be appropriate to assist someone. I would prefer to have a long-term relationship with patients before helping them. Knowing what they looked like before illness, what the illness is going to do to them, and where they are today. I also would allow families to assist. I wouldn't have an issue prescribing drugs to some of my patient's kids or spouses (usually wives). They know when their loved ones no longer would want to be alive.
 
Lol. That's it? I've seen people have hallucinations for all kinds of reasons. So in your view, a god makes them suffer through a painful terminal illness, but as a pittance they give them a fun little dream before ultimately dying? .

Personally, I don't find that good evidence of a sky fairy.
I didn't say there was a 'sky fairy'. Personally, for someone in medicine, I think your ridicule with this pejorative term is below you but fair enough. This is GIAOT so its fine. I am Catholic so I believe in God but I simply think that religion is a codified way for the masses to have the afterlife explained in a way that is understandable. Which is why I believe all religions have value.

I don't believe dying patients are hallucinating as you do. I believe there is another dimension/after life that our souls are matter is taken after death. I have seen enough people over die over the years that the peace that comes over them and the things they vocalize have me convinced that there is something else beyond this plane of existence. Is there God and a Heaven? I believe so but these terms are merely ways of making sense out of that which is hard to make sense out of. I dont not believe in suffering either. Which is why I make a point of doing my best to bring peace to them as much as I can. The presence of suffering does not argue for Go'ds absence.

Are you atheist or agnostic? Just curious.

Personally I find agnosticism quite easy to understand and can easily see why many fall into this camp. I think that the certainty some have for God's absence is just as hard to explain as Gods existence.
 
The problem is it starts with terminally I'll people then it just starts expanding to people who are mentally ill or disabled. Eventually it becomes an expectation that you off yourself rather than be a "burden". When we start pressuring people to off themselves because it might cost us time and money to care for them we have lost all of our humanity.

It took very little time at all to go from just terminally I'll people to depressed people.
Can we just jump straight to fatties?
 
Lol. That's it? I've seen people have hallucinations for all kinds of reasons. So in your view, a god makes them suffer through a painful terminal illness, but as a pittance they give them a fun little dream before ultimately dying? .

Personally, I don't find that good evidence of a sky fairy.

Preach brother. Preach.
 
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I didn't say there was a 'sky fairy'. Personally, for someone in medicine, I think your ridicule with this pejorative term is below you but fair enough. This is GIAOT so its fine. I am Catholic so I believe in God but I simply think that religion is a codified way for the masses to have the afterlife explained in a way that is understandable. Which is why I believe all religions have value.

I don't believe dying patients are hallucinating as you do. I believe there is another dimension/after life that our souls are matter is taken after death. I have seen enough people over die over the years that the peace that comes over them and the things they vocalize have me convinced that there is something else beyond this plane of existence. Is there God and a Heaven? I believe so but these terms are merely ways of making sense out of that which is hard to make sense out of. I dont not believe in suffering either. Which is why I make a point of doing my best to bring peace to them as much as I can. The presence of suffering does not argue for Go'ds absence.

Are you atheist or agnostic? Just curious.

Personally I find agnosticism quite easy to understand and can easily see why many fall into this camp. I think that the certainty some have for God's absence is just as hard to explain as Gods existence.
We're all agnostic, since none of us know for certain. I'm 99.69% sure there's nothing waiting on the other side. Lights out, ballgame. Some find that scary, I find it comforting. It'll be just like it was before you're born.

People can have their religion. Go for it if it gives you comfort. But as has been shown in the thread, people use their religious beliefs to influence actual policies and laws. I have a major problem with that.
 
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We're all agnostic, since none of us know for certain. I'm 99.69% sure there's nothing waiting on the other side. Lights out, ballgame. Some find that scary, I find it comforting. It'll be just like it was before you're born.

People can have their religion. Go for it if it gives you comfort. But as has been shown in the thread, people use their religious beliefs to influence actual policies and laws. I have a major problem with that.

Being “the end” is the most comforting thing one could possibly imagine IMHO. Not that being here now isn’t great. But I’ll never understand people’s desire to fall into the trap and use religion as a way to extend “life.” That desire is zapping the seconds, minutes, days, and years you have. So silly.
 
Being “the end” is the most comforting thing one could possibly imagine IMHO. Not that being here now isn’t great. But I’ll never understand people’s desire to fall into the trap and use religion as a way to extend “life.” That desire is zapping the seconds, minutes, days, and years you have. So silly.

Heaven would be sweet, though.

Infinite bliss. I'll take it. :)
 
I didn't say there was a 'sky fairy'. Personally, for someone in medicine, I think your ridicule with this pejorative term is below you but fair enough. This is GIAOT so its fine. I am Catholic so I believe in God but I simply think that religion is a codified way for the masses to have the afterlife explained in a way that is understandable. Which is why I believe all religions have value.


Personally I find agnosticism quite easy to understand and can easily see why many fall into this camp. I think that the certainty some have for God's absence is just as hard to explain as Gods existence.

Gus,

You and I know that Jesus existed.

If you're interested in NDE's, check out the Magis Center by Father Robert Spitzer.

 
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If you have free long distance in Infinite Bliss give me a call in hell and you can drop an “I told you so.” Or just call collect and announce yourself as “hooker killer” and I’ll accept the call.

Just ask Jesus to save you.

I'm but a mere man. :)
 
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