I don't know what that means exactly but if it's a job thing then yeah, change sucks and nobody likes it. Unfortunately, adapting to new policies you don't want to do is part of having a job and we all have to do it. See, my issue isn't that I don't want to call people by the wrong pronouns, I just can't remember who wants me to do it and which ones they want me to use. So I avoid pronouns completely until I'm confident I have it right. I also suck at names too so maybe I've just had plenty of practice talking to someone like I know them very well even though I can't remember their name for the life of me. It honestly is my biggest weakness seeing as I have a job where remembering people's names is pretty important.