Cool story Joe. You don't make the other guy the asshole when you are commiting crimes. If they do that shit there will be continued hell to pay, what you suggested is Kidnaping at minimum and likely a way higher crime for someone that knows the laws of war. The smartest thing Ukraine has done to gain and keep the world support is not doing dumb shit like you suggested. Ukraine has a sketchy past itself, if they start doing super unethical shit people are going to fall out of favor. I know at the end of the day your opinion isn't going to make Ukrainians start kidnapping people's family's but your opinion here was dumb.