As bad as this situation was, I think that termination may have been a bit much. However, the 3-game suspension is a joke, and really shows that nobody really cared to address the real issue and nobody learned a thing - they just treated it like a random issue with the football program. They had to “do something” so they arbitrarily chose a 3-game suspension.
What I really would have liked to see, and would have earned my respect, is a 1-year suspension. Urban would be spending that time in sensitivity training, raising awareness for domestic abuse and promoting programs that support battered women (not to mention requiring a large monetary donation). I agree with everyone that his speech was awful and would have liked to have him required to apologize specifically to mrs Smith.
That would have shown me that the university cares and wanted to actually work towards actually fixing a problem and not just make a football issue go away as fast as possible. Who knows; maybe Urban would have actually learned something tangible about himself and realized what an awful human being he has been. Instead, the only thing he will learn is not to get caught next time.
Very disappointed in tOSU, but like most of you, not at all surprised.