Or we could just red flag ourselves, meaning be mindful of when we might be on a path towards violence.red flag all white males now please
You know one expression of toxic masculinity is an inability to accept failings, to accept wrongness, to admit error, to accept accountability. It's a natural outcome of men being the hegemon since forever. We all nod our heads together that power corrupts. Well, men have been in power forever. And "toxic masculinity" is simply a way of explaining the common behaviors that are products of that accumulation of corruptness.
Does this mean every single man exhibits toxic masculinity behaviors? Of course not. But it's a real thing and chances are vehemently denying it is itself a behavior of it.
I know, convenient.
And yes, women can and do fall to the same behavioral issues. I worked with Girl Scouts of the USA for almost four years on their branding and marketing and communications. The women in power there did some toxic masculinity type of shit, let me tell you.
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