It appears this young lady has completely unrealistic expectations for a young person who has just entered the real professional world. Owning a new vehicle at that stage in your life is foolish and is essentially throwing money away, a newish Silverado in the middle of the options packages is a $50,000 vehicle. That's an absurd amount of money for a vehicle that's a giant gas hog with high maintenance costs for a person making $60,000 a year. My wife and I bought used vehicles exclusively until we were nearly 50 years old, buying new vehicles didn't make any financial sense whatsoever.
Similarly, we were renters until our mid-30s and we only made the leap to home ownership through some luck and a city sponsored CDBG grant program geared towards new potential owners with little in hand for a down payment. Getting into that "club" certainly makes a big difference from that point forward as you then enjoy the benefit of asset appreciation. I recognize it's tougher now for younger families to get into that with the insane market values and prevailing interest rates.
The wife and I are tail-end boomers, but we generally made smart decisions along the way and we certainly weren't just handed things because of our generational affiliation. We eat out only occasionally, maybe once a week and we don't fritter our money away on everything that the rest of the world obsesses over at the moment. People need to focus on the things they actually need in life and quit pursuing every thing they think they want.
This is true for every generation. I recently became aware that my younger sister who is in her mid-40s decided it was acceptable to open up lines of credit under my elderly mother's name at a number of retail stores and then use those to subsidize her lifestyle. $400 baseball bats for her grade school son, endless items of clothing for her that will never get worn, and certainly much more than that, we may never know the true scope of the financial theft she perpetrated over the years. And the whole time she cried to my mother that she couldn't afford groceries for her kids which is complete hogwash. Entitlement and consumerism is a sickness and it's far more pervasive than most people realize.