Huh?You're grandson's friends told you this? Okay boomer... I'm sure they all deeply appreciate you looking out for their long term well being.
There was an instance or two where some kids changed college choices based on what was offered financially, because a few were looking at D-3 sports. But the parents seemed more frustrated than the kids.
Life lessons, my friend. A good experience that life isn't always fair.
Not sure what point you are trying to make here other than you don't like my political views.