Umm, that was a criticism of Tom, and it would have been given no matter who the particular parent was who opened his eyes for him. Just happened to be Lar (according to Tom, at least).
I’m not a state XYZ homer who takes it personally when a state XYZ product takes his services elsewhere. The drama over Spencer leaving PA is silly, IMO. Especially since it had minimal impact to PSU’s success. No one, other than Spencer, should be bitter about Spencer going to Iowa (if, say, he somehow had regrets over his decision).