I get that we all want her and I obviously hope she commits, but I think we should all lower our expectations/hopes. She made those comments at what, age 12, 13? She will learn a lot and grow a lot and she is visiting lots of programs -- as she should. If she changes her mind between ages 13 and 16 b/c she realizes that another program fits her skills, strengths, attitude, whatever, really...we shouldn't be surprised or offended.
And we've also seen evidence that her father is trying to make sure she makes the right business decisions, i.e., taking NIL opportunities into account (which I don't think count against us, tbh) -- so that means even her parents (whom we might ordinarily hope would be her biggest Iowa cheerleaders) aren't necessarily nudging her toward Iowa out of loyalty either.