I know. It’s hard in the moment. Years later it will seem so obvious.
Please advise
- Thread starter jellyfish10
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I know. It’s hard in the moment. Years later it will seem so obvious.
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Yes sir you are right. Always appreciate your perspective so thank you.
I’m sorry to hear that and I’m glad you’re doing better.
Lute? The dude who plays some kind of quirky Internet personality? Anyone with his posting style can’t be a serious person.
She's quite informed about who's moving in and out. She's also very aware that you are single. The fact that she spent that much time talking to you is a dead giveaway that she is interested. Unless you are planning on proposing on the first date, or even the first break in conversation, ask her out for a casual evening. Hell, you might even just become friends, but it's still nice to know the neighbors.
The dude was born before the Civil War. Cut the man some slack.
Same age, similar situation.
I've grown so comfortable single that changing that isn't as appealing as it once was. I had had a woman I've known for awhile, who is recently out of a relationship, reach out about hanging out. I was initially excited about the idea as she's a very attractive woman with a few similar interests.
However, after a short hang I really came away not all that interested romantically.
I used to have a greater need for physical affection that I'd put up with things like 'never shutting up', now I can't do it; a definite drop in T as well as patience.
In my case I feel like I was just kinda meant to fly solo. I like to do what I want, when I want with no one questioning where I am or when I'll be home. It's kinda nice to wake up today and decide I'm heading to LV to see a few concerts and not run it past anyone.
Good luck and follow your instincts.
My oldest is struggling with that right now. He's not that thin but he's lost a lot of weight. I was 6' 145 after my divorce. I'm 100 pounds heavier now. Don't follow me for healthy living advice.
That’s the thing with eating disorders. 5’8” and 140# and feel fat AF. Granted I’m not in the shape that I am accustomed to, but that is a massive mind fvck.
GF of 7 years on Bumble. Used Tinder to slay for the first couple of months after my divorce.
This is really the only important part of the post. If she trapped you on the street, imagine being trapped in your home. Constantly. For Ever. Until Death.
I was shoeless when this interaction happened Miss Birch. So the nice shoes = didn’t quite work out.
No Pic ex, No pic neighbor, no pic blah blah blah blah. You suck.
Looks like your neighbor just got some competition!
Best advice, unless it's needle drugs, is just do the thing. Everybody regrets missed opportunities more than reheatable actions.
Maybe not even then. If you have ten minutes to spare here’s a classic Night Gallery.
This thread has been great, certainly a lot better than all the political threads we see every day! BTW, my advice to the op is to stay away from this woman (unless you think the sex may be worth it).
Just changer her conversation to Oh God, Oh God, Oh God and the problem is solved.This is really the only important part of the post. If she trapped you on the street, imagine being trapped in your home. Constantly. For Ever. Until Death.
Ask her out and bring one of these. It might come in handy
Don’t do her, she’s already too much work. Maybe ask if she has friends if worth it to you. It will happen when you least expect. Good luck.
So you just want jelly to sit there with a ball gag in his mouth while she yaps about the neighbors moving?Ask her out and bring one of these. It might come in handy
@jellyfish10 is this the X that you’ve been dating or the one you were married to?
We lived together but no. My x wife is who my kids are with.
So….why do you think it’s over over with the x or why are you still holding out hope?
Sounds miserable. Find a FWB and enjoy what single life has to offer which is no bitching and quietness.
