Just as I expected. The ol’ ‘you’re not a real fan’ comeback. As I told my wife once, I’ve loved Iowa sports a lot longer than her. Some friendly advice, don’t use that line. Anyway, just because I want Iowa to play better defense disqualifies me as a fan? Just because I think Fran has taken the program as far as I think he can disqualifies me? Just because I choose to spend time with my family instead of watching every second of an Iowa disqualifies me? My goodness you are shallow.
No, you are completely missing the point, or perhaps just do not understand. The question is what you do not understand, my meaning or your own words?
You didn't say you were a fan hoping for a better season. Your exact quote is:
I’m a realist, though, that he’s going to be the coach for the foreseeable future. Iowa basketball, and football to a certain extent, is not must-watch for me anymore, the frustration of inconsistent play and no defense just takes away the enjoyment.
Now, unless you are giving those words a meaning other than regular usage, you are saying: (1) you are no longer sufficiently interested in the basketball and football programs to watch the games; (2) you no longer enjoy watching whatever less than complete games/seasons you watch; and (3) blame the coaches for your lack of enjoyment and subsequent disinterest.
Those words describe someone that might have a passing interest in the football and MBB programs, not a fan. They are the words you used to describe yourself. Alternatively, the definition of fan says something very differently.
noun (2)
1: an enthusiastic devotee (as of a sport or a performing art) usually as a spectator
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/fan
2: an ardent admirer or enthusiast (as of a celebrity or a pursuit)
You are specifically saying that you are not enthusiastic or devoted. You say you do not enjoy the games, so we cannot really describe you as enthusiastic, unless you have some psychosexual masochistic personality traits and derive pleasure from discomfort and frustration.
And don't repeat what you said above: all you said really amounts to an admission that you might someday be again a fan, when Iowa has different coaches, different players, different styles of play and better results that are more suited to your personal preferences. That describes someone that jumps on a band wagon, not a fan. Saw a lot of those guys between 2013 and 2015.
Now, a person of normal psychological health would not so frequently, almost obsessively go somewhere and constantly complain about the thing to which they are no longer devoted or enthusiastic, would they?. Your explanation doesn't disclose the motivation for the constant, obsessive negativity if you care so little you don't even watch.
It's the Raiders for me. Loved the Raiders as a kid and through the 80s. But, what was fun in the early days turned into the clown show, jumping cities, ridiculous players, etc... So I am a Raider fan like you're a Hawk fan. I'd like to see them do better with less douchey coaches and players. I can identify some of their problems, etc... But I don't give a **** so I'm not on Raider boards several times a week describing in tedious detail all the things I don't like about the Raiders.