My thoughts when there is a good Soybean story on the horizon.
F him. What about that sister in law? Pics of her wearing Hawkeye bikini or thong?
he’s one guy with a differing political stance at a big party where everyone knows everyone else. what’s the big deal? if he has the courage to mingle with hostiles, let him come in whatever garb and even talk politics if he wants. surely adults can handle any type of conversation, this isn’t china. if anything the party will be made more memorable. now if he were to ask whether he can bring along a bunch of his buddies , my thinking might be different.
Wow! With family like you, who needs a free train ride to Auschwitz?!!...to watch the game and have a few beers and barbecue. It is always a good time. But I have a problem - my brother. He is a smart guy and has very well for himself, but he is MAGA. Everyone else is not. And he is not just a normal Republican, which is OK with us, but he is a mega MAGA. On the 4th of July he showed up to groans wearing his red MAGA hat and shirt that read" Trump won, and you know its true".
Just this morning I have fielded two calls from invitees asking about the party details including "is xxxxxx coming? He has become an absolute mood killer whenever he shows up in recent years and has become more stident than ever this year for some reason. We are expecting 35-40 guests. Several will be otherwise well behaved ISU fans who have expressed their disdain for him openly, one almost punched him on the 4th. Is there a good way to uninvited a brother(and a business partner a couplethree ways) from a gathering that includes all his Iowa siblings and several of his old friends without causing a major family rift?
I should add that there is no use trying to debate with him about MAGA as he is 100% all in. The idea that Trump will be at the game has added to our apprehension. Oh, and one more little complication - even through he has a very nice wife of over 40 years he has lately become very enamored with my SIL that hates his guts. I dread the scene this might cause also.
Couldn’t find a better example of a couple of fine, young democrats!
She PIIHB?Just the opposite.
Opposite meaning her mouth? Or opposite meaning she stuck it up his ass??Just the opposite.
You could not pay me to go to Trice again. Last time I was over there I had t defend myself from some druken Clone fan who keep following us to the car carrying some sort of minature baseball bat..I'd just man up and tell no politics in any way shape or form. If he can't abide the host request, he can go mingle with all the other yahoos who will show up to see Trump.
Which poses a question- is your party at trice or off site, and if at Trice, what happens if Trump stops by to visit with all you right thinking Iowans?
How many at your party will feel uncomfortable around your brother at the tailgate/party? If you are going to let one person ruin it just don't host it.birch - The hard thing for me is that he is my brother. Any other guy and I would have already just told him he was not welcome, and why.
You can choose your friends but you can’t choose your family…..I dare say every family has one.***WARNING*** stepping out of character on this one
Let him come to the party. If he gets out of hand pull him aside and explain that if he continues he will be asked to leave and if he refuses you will call the police. It sucks but you have to let him make a fool of himself one last time in front of the family. Familes...
Did you see the part of Bean's post about the 4th of July party? The brother can't control himself, and will make it a point to engage others who are there to enjoy food and football.he’s one guy with a differing political stance at a big party where everyone knows everyone else. what’s the big deal? if he has the courage to mingle with hostiles, let him come in whatever garb and even talk politics if he wants. surely adults can handle any type of conversation, this isn’t china. if anything the party will be made more memorable. now if he were to ask whether he can bring along a bunch of his buddies , my thinking might be different.
So let one person ruin it?🤣How many at your party will feel uncomfortable around your brother at the tailgate/party? If you are going to let one person ruin it just don't host it.
I see you misunderstood the point.So let one person ruin it?🤣
the man in question is very enamored with the SIL that we all know about, it would be very poor form to uninvite him.Did you see the part of Bean's post about the 4th of July party? The brother can't control himself, and will make it a point to engage others who are there to enjoy food and football.
May be a difficult conversation …however … lay the ground rules and if he gets upset that’s on him. One...to watch the game and have a few beers and barbecue. It is always a good time. But I have a problem - my brother. He is a smart guy and has very well for himself, but he is MAGA. Everyone else is not. And he is not just a normal Republican, which is OK with us, but he is a mega MAGA. On the 4th of July he showed up to groans wearing his red MAGA hat and shirt that read" Trump won, and you know its true".
Just this morning I have fielded two calls from invitees asking about the party details including "is xxxxxx coming? He has become an absolute mood killer whenever he shows up in recent years and has become more stident than ever this year for some reason. We are expecting 35-40 guests. Several will be otherwise well behaved ISU fans who have expressed their disdain for him openly, one almost punched him on the 4th. Is there a good way to uninvited a brother(and a business partner a couplethree ways) from a gathering that includes all his Iowa siblings and several of his old friends without causing a major family rift?
I should add that there is no use trying to debate with him about MAGA as he is 100% all in. The idea that Trump will be at the game has added to our apprehension. Oh, and one more little complication - even through he has a very nice wife of over 40 years he has lately become very enamored with my SIL that hates his guts. I dread the scene this might cause also.
These are the dumbest posts on the board.4 PHDs
3 masters
2 Veterinary doctors
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None of my siblings or in-laws are Republican. Hmmmmm…..
spill the beans on the lewd comments. we are here to let you know if you might be reading too much from some innocent remarksHe called me a few mintes ago to confirn a detail about the calves we re working next week. He told me they arecoming down tonight to stay over and then to help with set-up for the game in the morning. After a couple of his usual lewd comments about my SIL he causly dropped in a line that it will be a no-politics Saturday for him...we'll see.
First - SIL was dressed like a cross between a pole dancer and a cheerleader. It actually looked pretty good on her. But, it only served to elevated some of the guys blood pressue to the chargin of ther wives. You could smell the lust.Just checking in for an epic s*** show event with the brother, and the SIL banging some dude behind the machine shed at halftime.
Poweshiek County 9?First - SIL was dressed like a cross between a pole dancer and a cheerleader. It actually looked pretty good on her. But, it only served to elevated some of the guys blood pressue to the chargin of ther wives. You could smell the lust.
Next time put the appropriate amount of GHB in his first beer. Not having even seen GHB before, I have no idea what that amount is...First - SIL was dressed like a cross between a pole dancer and a cheerleader. It actually looked pretty good on her. But, it only served to elevated some of the guys blood pressue to the chargin of ther wives. You could smell the lust.
My brother was well behaved before and during the game - after the game, not so much. He was outraged that not everyone in Ames was MAGA.
First - SIL was dressed like a cross between a pole dancer and a cheerleader. It actually looked pretty good on her. But, it only served to elevated some of the guys blood pressue to the chargin of ther wives. You could smell the lust.
Never gonna happen from me. But there is another guy on this board who might do so.
2002-4 were special years.
Another guy on this board has pics of your SIL?Never gonna happen from me. But there is another guy on this board who might do so.
MAGAs are the Vegans of the right wing. Everyone needs to know that you're one and everyone needs to know why you're right and whatever they're doing is wrong....to watch the game and have a few beers and barbecue. It is always a good time. But I have a problem - my brother. He is a smart guy and has very well for himself, but he is MAGA. Everyone else is not. And he is not just a normal Republican, which is OK with us, but he is a mega MAGA. On the 4th of July he showed up to groans wearing his red MAGA hat and shirt that read" Trump won, and you know its true".
Just this morning I have fielded two calls from invitees asking about the party details including "is xxxxxx coming? He has become an absolute mood killer whenever he shows up in recent years and has become more stident than ever this year for some reason. We are expecting 35-40 guests. Several will be otherwise well behaved ISU fans who have expressed their disdain for him openly, one almost punched him on the 4th. Is there a good way to uninvited a brother(and a business partner a couplethree ways) from a gathering that includes all his Iowa siblings and several of his old friends without causing a major family rift?
I should add that there is no use trying to debate with him about MAGA as he is 100% all in. The idea that Trump will be at the game has added to our apprehension. Oh, and one more little complication - even through he has a very nice wife of over 40 years he has lately become very enamored with my SIL that hates his guts. I dread the scene this might cause also.
He dated her for a couple of month after the divorce.Another guy on this board has pics of your SIL?