Originally posted by Auger:
I have a serious question for everyone on here. Let me start by saying if I owned a cake shop I would sell to anyone and wouldnt discriminate. I have a lesbian activist cousin who along with her brother destroys my facebook feed with her political agenda everyday. She along with all of her lesbian activist friends hate anyone and everyone that discriminates against gays. I asked her a qustion the other day that if a guy walks into a cake shop to ask for a cake that shows two men getting married with a big red X through it should the baker make it? First thing she said was I would hope not. I asked but what if the baker did. First thing she said was that she would go to the baker and ask why the baker supported that type of message.
I don't have a problem with people who are gay pink, blue or whatever. I have a problem with a group of people who push their beliefs on others and if you dont join well you will be burnt to the ground and drug through the mud. I have a problem if the lesbian couple went to 10 cake shops and were truned away from 5 or more of them. I dont have a problem if a lesbian couple went to 10 shops and were only turned away from 1 or maybe 2 of them. Chalk that up to ignorant people but whatever. But dont bring the fires of Hell upon somebody and create a national hysteria so the powerful can exploit it while avg joe suffers.
Let me walk through this one:
I don't know your cousin, nor her use of facebook, but is Civil Rights really "political agenda"?
Your question posed:
"...if a guy walks into a cake shop to ask for a cake that shows two men
getting married with a big red X through it should the baker make it?"
First, you use the word "should", which infers morality, imo. I won't comment on the morality of that decision, and I don't think it really changes the overall point here.
Second, a person getting that cake could, legally, be denied (IMO) service based on the message of the cake. That person is not a member of a specific, or even protected class. The denial would be due to the message, not do to the person. To me, it would be identical to that same guy requesting a cake of the President being shot by a sniper. There isn't anything protected about it, nor "should" there be, therefore a denial of service would be up to the proprietor.
As I re-thought this, thinking of the rebuttal, I can see (very thinly) that someone could claim that they were denied this cake due to their religion. If their religion is opposed to gay marriage and required them to act on that belief, it is (barely) plausible that someone could make this argument.
But, I don't think that actually has merit. To begin with, and I've made my opinions known, when we go down the road of "religious beliefs" there is nothing we can't do/not do based on religion. Someone has a religion of hating women, therefore no service to women. When we go down that rabbithole, it just doesn't work. So, more importantly, I'd say the denial isn't "based on religion", but the message.
Could the same be said about a gay marriage cake? Plausibly, and more so than the rebuttal above, but I think it is easily differentiated. A wedding is something that is accepted, commonplace, and part of the legal fabric. People getting married isn't a message, certainly people celebrating that marriage isn't a message either. Therefore a cake denoting that marriage is not a message. Turning down a gay-marriage participant would be turning them down for being homosexual...not for their message. Turning down a gay-marriage opposer's message would not be equatable.
" I have a problem with a group of people who push their beliefs on
others and if you dont join well you will be burnt to the ground and
drug through the mud."
That is good, then you wouldn't support things such as the Hobby Lobby opinion....right? Aren't those supporters and lobbyists necessarily pushing their opinion on others and politically attacking the opposition?
I've posted this before, but the reaction to Indiana was American at its core. A group (obviously a substantial one) standing up for something it found important and doing something proactive about it (moving their business, refusing to have convention there, etc.) to effect change. That is quintessentially American, see the Boston Tea Party for an obvious example. The only time it really gets termed "pushing their beliefs on others" is when they don't agree with it.