I see your argument and raise you this. What kind of player sits out due to "load management" when some little kid's parent may not have been able to afford tickets but did for their kid to see their favorite player?
OR
drove from multiple hours away knowing they only have one shot to watch their favorite player?
While I agree that sometimes it's a little much, the crowd is there to watch Caitlin do her thing every single night. Nobody is doing anything illegal by playing more minutes and as the old adage goes "if you don't like it, figure out how to stop it." It's never the other coaches responsibility to make your players feel good about losing.